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Taking Time Out…
~ Preparing For New Soirees
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Preparing for New Soirees
I’m not in a party mood as I am disgusted by the REAL news…
So, I’m taking some time out to make special preparations to make My Soirees even more exclusive and to keep the barbaryans out. I guess you could say that I’m building a wall… Check out My New Rules 2017.
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As always, My Events are chef-catered, in completely-private (no walk-ins), clean, and comfortable, Midtown spaces with an elevator — and NO cameras anywhere (which can not be said for other events around town…) And, as always, to ensure that Quality Fetishists are in attendance, ALL ATTENDEES MUST submit a complete, invitation application.
Details to come…
In the meantime, enjoy some Time Out by The Dave Brubeck Quartet!
Still Time To Join My “Mistress Fit” Program
So, how are those New Year Resolutions working out…?
I invite you to join Me to get “Mistress Fit!”
VERY IMPORTANT: NO JUDGMENT. Fitness is about Self-Love and I have NO tolerance for non-supportive attitudes towards anyone who is taking steps for their well-being. If it was easy, everyone would be fit.
As I stated in My previous Newsletter, I’m sharing some of My favorite fitness goodies with the worthy — and even, the unworthy — because when you feel good, you look good and you are BETTER in every way! Since there are multitudes of options for personal training available, you can find a professional (DO research their credentials; ask for references and speak to the referrers; and discuss your goals with a timeline plan) for personal attention. In the meantime, you can find a plethora of information and options to get and stay on track with your fitness, health, and wellness.
Some of My favorites:
- 30-Day #FREE #Yoga Challenge! The DoYogaWithMe website is truly one of the best ways to learn and practice yoga! There are FREE videos for every level and an extensive resource section. If you’ve never liked yoga before (it was probably your instructor), this site will give you a renewed inspiration to indulge in not only one of the best, total-body (including organs and glands) maintenance programs, but the only modality that I know of that tones skin, too!
- Knowing where your muscles, bones, etc. are in your body and how things work significantly improves your ability to achieve better results with your fitness activities. I use this site for several of My BDSM Technique & Safety Training Workshops (especially for BDSM Anatomy 101™): The BioDigital Human is “an interactive 3D map of the human body [that] makes it easy to visualize data, anatomy, disease and treatments in any web or mobile application.”
- A DANCE a day keeps the blues away! Let Us give thanks for YouTube because every type of music, style, technique, “spot-training,” time allotment, fitness level specifics, etc. can be found just by searching! (The more specific your search, the better results you will have.) And there are so many wonderful instructors of every size, shape, etc. who offer their time and joy to help Us get and stay fit! So, if you don’t want to watch some little-aerobic-bunny telling you to go for the burn, there are people who will appeal to your comforts offering workouts, too! Search by music genre, time, dance style, and definitely search, “For Dummies.” Check out these DANCE searches:
~ Country Dance Exercise Workout – Yeeehaaaah!
~ Soul Dance Workout – this is one of My favorites because the search yields a multitude of results including Bollywood, seniors, Latin, and Reggae!!!
Try something new and HAVE FUN!!!!
- IF you’re feeling sociable while I’m in NYC over the next few weeks, I intend to check out a bunch of fitness techniques that I haven’t tried yet and/or have tried and love (especially, Aerial Yoga)! Having a fitness buddy is always more fun than trying new, fitness adventures on your own. Care to join Me for a class and a cocktail or tea after? Gentlemen welcome, too!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE: I will interview staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture very soon… Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
- I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE
Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.
Thursday 3/16/17: DommeSalon™ Domina Meet & Greet
6-9pm, Midtown NYC
It’s time for a Diva Gathering! Join The DommeSalon™ for a Meet & Greet with current members and potential, new members!
Details will be sent to existing participants of My Domina101™ Programs and current DommeSalon™ Members first. If You are a Domina who would like to check Us out, please introduce Yourself here.
The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!
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This gift is what I offer to participants of My Photo Soirees to prepare and create an excellent experience to gain the benefit of more usable photos from the shoot.
There are links to resources about model releases that you should definitely review.
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely check it out!
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