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Black History Month:
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10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
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Education Is Key
~ Know YOUR History
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~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
Black History IS YOUR History
This newsletter is published a little late because I had to take some time to clear My head, collect My thoughts and be certain that I express Myself with the eloquence and integrity that makes Me proud to be Me. The growing wave of racism, sexism, creepism requires those of Us who are conscious and conscientious to be very mindful of Who We Are and How We Want To Be.
And so… The latest offensive stupidity comes from a moron requesting MY HELP FOR FREE and simultaneously suggesting that My How-To’s Inspired By The Kwanzaa Tradition “can turn some people off because it’s too ethnic.” I kid you not; those are his exact words. This creature, along with the folks who tell Me to My beautiful, brown face that I’m “not ‘really’ Black,” are why the NEED for greater education about TRUTH exists to expand not only everyone’s cultural identity but intelligence. I referred that trumpass to My Latest Rules for MY DOMAIN.
- So that it’s totally clear that American (and amerikkkan) history and present is BUILT upon the achievements and sacrifices of Black America despite the heinousness of slavery, Jim Crow, and trumpasses, this issue of My Newsletter is devoted to Black History month with facts to broaden your consciousness and clarity.
The more you know about YOUR history, the better you are in your present and future. AND maybe more people won’t say something racist and offensive from a place of total ignorance because YOU will have knowledge to share and be proud of, too. Each one teach one.
See Stimulations below.
If anyone thinks that’s too ethnic, handle your issues here…
The results are in! I am delighted to have so many knowledgeable readers! The correct answer is sounds — do you now what they are and how to use them? Check out My Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop and if there’s enough interest, I will create a special event.
Choose The Next Soirees
Due to the amount of time it will take to repair hurricane damage to My Fabulous Fetish Fun Zones, I am spending more time in NYC. So, that I don’t get bored, I have to create events to enjoy being a Fabulous Fetishist — which benefits you!
I GIVE YOU what you need to step up to BetterFetish™ and prepare to take part in superior experiences to the “pimp-n-ho parties.” All you need to do is be real and walk your talk. READ BELOW and really follow the links.
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Isn’t it lovely to have choices? Isn’t it lovelier to have someone care about you in your Fetish Fun?
Let Me know what type of Soirees you’re interested in attending and — here’s the best part — when you’re available so that I can make the magic happen!
PREPARE For My New Soirees!
It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees. I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.
~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress. Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
- If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
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As always, I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — IF I announce info anywhere else at all.
- Grand Audience Speed Domming™
- Domina Play Dates
- Domina101 In-Person and Webcam Workshops
- And maybe, A Full Dress Fetish Soiree (see pics) like the good ol’ days when people cared to contribute to The Scene instead of just wanting to take from it…
My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!
OF COURSE, I keep all details confidential. But I will say that the Fab Fetishists who participated in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project in the sun-sea-sand had a blast! I’m looking forward to more travels coming soon. So, don’t miss your opportunity to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities! DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.
- Strict Security protocols ALWAYS.
Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!
10 Domina101™ Tips Video
I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info on How YOU Benefit…
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Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
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