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UPDATE: 2 Events
October 4th & 11th
And MORE Performance Art Parties ~ Domina Nights!
Special Project Performer
& Participant Interviews!
NOW Interviewing Guests & Performers
for My Experiential Theater Project
My Birthday Preparations
Is NYC’s kinky side in jeopardy?
How To Attend My Events
for Party Service Assistants
~ Let’s #Evolve911 & #CelebrateLife
~ Domina Nights! Next with My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews
~ My Upcoming Birthday Celebrations
~ Domina101™: “Divas’ Night Out” Rescheduled for 9/27/17
~ Is NYC’s Kinky Side in Jeopardy?
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
My Upcoming Birthday Celebrations
Since beginning interviews for ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project, I have met some of the coolest people! Along with the Fabulous Fetishists I’ve known for years, this year’s Birthday Celebrations are going to be some of My Best Events EVER! Stay tuned…
I write this as an offering to reconsider how We remember 9/11/01.
Last year, after My attempts to avoid watching the ghoul-machine “rehash the trash” of 9/11-misery-mongering complete with non-stop footage of The Tower(s) going down and multitudes of memorial services — basically stirring the fears of loss, I became disgusted. I lost everything including My fiancé and love of My Life on 9/11 and I resent being dragged back into a place of sadness to distract Me from how much We The People have achieved since 2001… and everything else that’s going on.
Here We are 16 YEARS LATER and still focusing on death and destruction — how many times are We supposed to have memorial services for the deceased? When are We going to CELEBRATE THEIR CONTRIBUTIONS TO OUR LIVES and all that they have inspired Us to do in their honor?
It makes no emotionally-intelligent sense to continue to horrifically mourn the deceased for going on 2 decades when We can honor each individual who perished on that day by celebrating their special gifts and contributions to their families and communities.
The attack on Our senses of non-stop, repeated footage of dreadful events is a distraction tactic that keeps people docile with fear and loathing.
Wouldn’t you feel inspired to be an American by knowing how Our communities have grown stronger and moved forward from tragedy instead of being bombarded by what is actually whining – not remembrance, and certainly not honor for the deceased?
Lawyers Prep for Supreme Court Battle to Save NYC Kinky
We are under attack from the fecklessly-frigid!!! I think it is important to know how else Our freedoms are being destroyed. PAY ATTENTION! Check out this article:
“A Giuliani-era law is coming back to haunt some 25 adult entertainment businesses in New York. That is, unless, a group of N.Y.C. lawyers can successfully reverse the decision. If not, they must head to U.S. Supreme Court to save them…” READ MORE
Scene To Be Scene! My Experiential Theater Project Soirees
It’s time for another Mistress Didi* ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Party!
This month, My focus is on “Domina Nights” for Full, Fab, FemDomme, Fetish Fun!
- We are dressing in Our Fetish Bests, bringing out Our Glam Toys, showing off Our Talents & Skills, and going for the Big Thrills!
Therefore, this month’s Domina Soirees will be part of My Experiential Theater Project… for now. I may have to have a little, personal & private somethin’-somethin’… Yes, think Maxwell! Go ‘head, get your funk on!
I’m on a roll. Enjoy Til The Cops Come Knockin’ which may be one of – if not the – greatest, sex songs ever… WARNING: After you listen to this, make sure you have a lover nearby!
Siggghhhhhhhh….. OK, back to Fetish FUN…
I am interviewing more, cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks to Join The Upcoming Fun!
- When I say, cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT. See below… Sometimes, you just have to pity people…
AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We get off on the right foot.
- And speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:
Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.
Are you ready for something wild and wonderful and NEW?
Exciting fun! I’m developing a special, performance art experience that involves respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities.
- Participation involves party perks (bubbly beverages included all night) and some participants may receive expense reimbursement.
- You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation.
- Strict Security protocols ALWAYS apply.
This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).
I’m currently interviewing more safe, sane, consensual, respectful, and cool:
- Fabulous Skilled Fetishists who have fine-tuned their techniques
- Performers of a variety of types
- Voyeurs and Fetish-Fashionable Folks who are sociable
- Assistants to serve and/or sub
- Security to keep an eye out
- Stylish and wear Fetish attire that fits. You ARE part of the evening’s delights; “Peacock,” which means, Rock your Beauty! Everyone has Beauty; bring it.
- Respectful of staff, audience, each other, and understand and adhere to The Rules
- Discrete and follow My instructions, whether you’re Dominant or submissive or whatever — there’s only one Leader and it’s Me
- Able to interact with the audience, staff, and each other
- Civilized, cultured, have manners, and able to hold an intelligent conversation — no politics, religion, battle of the sexes
- Cool and comfortable with upscale (and often, famous) groups of people
- Play nice, be polite and be safe, sane, and consensual in all things
- Able to hang out late on a school night (I recommend arranging to go in late to work the next day for day-job folks) — this is a once-in-a-lifetime type of experience for most
- Able to appreciate that you’re being invited to participate in one of My Extravagant Events for free
For an idea of what I mean by “fabulous,” check out A Few of My Party Pics.
Now for the usual suspects…
There are always folks who (1) have NO idea of anything other than the limitations they insist upon maintaining; (2) are — and choose to remain — ignorant of the FACTS (though, as you see, I graciously take the time to write things clearly and concisely for everyone’s ease and they are too lazy to read); and (3) lack social skills and are the products of parenting failures.
MY mother taught Me to Pity The Self-Loathing because their behavior is really about them and not about you.
Certain unfortunates have applied to attend and participate in My Experiential Theater Project but could not comprehend that I am inviting participants to be My Guests — which means that your participation is complimentary.
I understand that they were so suspicious of Me because of (1) their own nefarious character flaws; (2) they lack class and do not know what it is to be a guest or the definition of the word, “complimentary;” and (3) their word means nothing so they cannot appreciate that My Word Is My Bond. I practice The Four Agreements and #1 is “Be Impeccable with your Word.”
So, to clarify, YOU MUST FOLLOW ALL OF MY INSTRUCTIONS if you wish to participate in MY GIFT TO YOU IN MY DOMAIN.
To Me, that doesn’t seem so difficult to understand… I believe that being able to receive is only something that people who are able to give can do. What do you think?
Check out this cool article, Learning to Receive: 5 Steps to Opening Up. It’s a good, quick read and a great opportunity to check in with yourself.
Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos. Read My Photo Guarantee.
Want to know more? Join in The Fun? APPLY HERE.
- I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain. See below.
RESCHEDULED Session Wed. 9/27/17 – 7:45-9:45pm: Divas’ Night Out!
It’s time for a discussion about Domme to Domme interactions from basic manners (in both the vanilla and Fetish Worlds) and how to Play Nice with others. Of course, We will discuss how to deal with those who just insist on being thirsty bitches…
- Confusing Dominance For bullying
- Beautiful Fetish, Excellence & Ego
- How To Deal With “Piggy” Dommes
- The Difference Between Fetish & Kink and
- Fakers-Shakers-Takers-Noise Makers
The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE
Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
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Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
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