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November News
Coming Soon!

Part 1 of October NEWS!

October 11th & 18th Performance Art Parties ~
My Birthday Delights!
Special Project Performer
& Participant Interviews!
What Kind of Soiree Guest Are You? Quiz
NOW Interviewing Guests & Performers
for My Experiential Theater Project Soirees
Donate To My Birthday Charity Fundraiser, Please
10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
Free Tools To “Raze The Crazy”
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants

It’s My Birthday Season!

~ Birthday Soirees – My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz
~ Donate to My Birthday Charity Fundraiser
~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ Domina101™: “How To Receive” 10/26/17
~ Free Tools To Stay Sane & Calm
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

NEXT: Scene To Be Scene! My Experiential Theater Project Soirees October 11th & 18th Events

I’ve started something fabulous ~ again! Last month’s ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project was so much fun that I’ve been asked to create Soirees in 2 new locations! So, to be fair, I’m rotating participants and interviewing more, respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities!

NOTE: if you missed My Complimentary Admission during the “previews” stage of My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Soirees, you can now indulge in all-inclusive, participation for the ridiculously, generous amount of a $30 donation to My Birthday Charity. Special details are provided to attendees.

Again, this year, and every year, I choose to raise money with Charity Fundraising Events for My Birthday Celebrations instead of asking for frivolous gifts. This way, We can all benefit from My Celebrations!

Participation involves party perks (bubbly libations included all night) and some participants may receive expense reimbursement.

You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation — My treat. Details sent to applicants.

Strict Security protocols ALWAYS apply.

AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We proceed correctly from the very beginning.

Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT. There are NO other events with the level of upscale excellence that I’m sharing — are you worthy of this Gift?

And speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:

How To Present yourself To A Mistress

Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

Along with the Fabulous Fetishists I’ve known for years, this year’s Birthday Celebrations are going to be some of My Best Events EVER! Stay tuned for Part 2 of My Newsletter as I add more celebrations, including Halloween Happenings!

The Details: My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Soirees

Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you! Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!

This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).

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I’m interviewing and inviting more safe, sane, consensual, respectful, and cool:

Fabulous Skilled Fetishists who have fine-tuned their techniques
Performers of a variety of types
Voyeurs and Fetish-Fashionable Folks who are sociable
Assistants to serve and/or sub
Security to keep an eye out

Participants MUST be:

Stylish and wear Fetish attire that fits. You ARE part of the evening’s delights; “Peacock,” which means, Rock your Beauty! Everyone has Beauty; bring it.
Respectful of staff, audience, each other, and understand and adhere to The Rules
Discrete and follow My instructions, whether you’re Dominant or submissive or whatever — there’s only one Leader and it’s Me
Able to interact with the audience, staff, and each other
Civilized, cultured, have manners, and able to hold an intelligent conversation — no politics, religion, battle of the sexes
Cool and comfortable with upscale (and often, famous) groups of people
Play nice, be polite and be safe, sane, and consensual in all things
Able to hang out late on a school night (I recommend arranging to go in late to work the next day for day-job folks) — this is a once-in-a-lifetime type of experience for most
Able to appreciate that you’re being invited to participate in one of My Extravagant Events for a small donation to My Birthday Charity.

For an idea of what I mean by “fabulous,” check out A Few of My Party Pics.

AGAIN, YOU MUST FOLLOW ALL OF MY INSTRUCTIONS if you wish to participate in MY GIFT TO YOU IN MY DOMAIN.

Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos. Read My Photo Guarantee.

Want to Join in The Fun? APPLY HERE.

I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain. See below.

Please Donate To My Birthday Charity

Again, this year, instead of requesting frivolous gifts for My Birthday, I ask that you give the gift of clean water to people who don’t even have a well to drink from! There are a billion people on the planet who don’t have clean water to even drink. Think about this the next time you enjoy a shower.

Charity: Water is a non-profit bringing clean and safe drinking water to people in developing nations. Please Donate to My 2017 Birthday Campaign. Every amount counts and makes a difference.

FYI, private donors cover the operating costs of Charity Water so that 100{493547fe19351e34cdd0e3bd3bea1b8df8a58e3eed9a9c738dcd9b49d78ba6ea} of all public donations can go directly to water project costs!

For more information, check out this 2-minute video: Why Charity: Water

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering. So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics. IF you want more detailed info, READ.

Domina101™ Online Lecture and Q&A

Wednesday 10/25/17 – 7:45-9:45pm: How To Receive What You Desire

While being one of My most fabulous creations yet, My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project has also been a sad adventure of seeing how people do NOT believe they are worthy of what they desire as demonstrated by self-sabotage.

This Domina101™ Session will address ways that You may (unknowingly) sabotage Your Domain Desires and I will offer exercises and techniques to get and keep You on track to Maintain Your DomDomain Your Way in Happiness.

Suggested Reading:

The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance.

For more information, please read and Join Us!

Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”

While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around. You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).

We are under attack by a non-stop, barrage of negativity on Our senses and sensibilities. So, before anyone else pops a gasket, and so that We can exercise SELF-CONTROL and BE examples of the BEST rather than the worst of Americans, here are FREE Tools to strengthen your clarity and calm.

Chill Out Training Technique: The Tapping Solution
I swear by this technique for Myself and it totally works for Me and everyone who chooses to work it. It is a physiological-neurolinguistic technique that you can learn in less than 4 minutes (see video) to instantly gain and maintain control of your emotional states. Try it for yourself! You’ll be amazed!

Subscribe To Daily GOOD NEWS Reports. I highly recommend:

Happify is the single destination for effective, evidence-based solutions for better emotional health and wellbeing in the 21st century. Happify brings you effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts with proven techniques developed by leading scientists and experts who’ve been studying evidence-based interventions in the fields of positive psychology, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral therapy for decades.

Daily Good. The world is full of everyday heroes and true stories of transformation. DailyGood aims to shine a light on these stories and in doing so to change the nature of our conversations. If it can spread a few smiles along the way it’s purpose is served. Readers receive a news story, an inspiring quote, and a suggested action that each person can take to make a difference in their own lives and the world around them. I look forward to receiving these emails!

2 of My favorite sources for good news reports are the Good News Network which has been inspiring people to be more optimistic with positive news from all over the world for more than 20 years, and Sunny Skyz which has only positive, uplifting and inspiring news stories from around the world.

Believe it or not, several, major news organizations actually have a “good news” section. Some offerings come from The Huffington Post, MSN, Today, and Fox News… but there’s a really good probability that it’s fake news!

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.

Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!

Webcam Workshops

Coming Soon!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

Currently on Ask Mss Didi*

What’s In Your Play Bag?

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.

Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!