Well, Miss T.,
You're in luck! I recently
ended a relationship with someone in The Scene (sort of),
too and the gossips tried to circle around Me like vultures!
Here is part of a post to My blog on this very issue and you
will also find value in
How To Deal With Relationship Gossip:
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I tell
people what I want them to know. Period. The only reason
I’m bothering to comment on the scavenging is to eliminate
the opportunity for the usual-jealous-ugly-creatures to
besmirch the person who is no longer a part of My life –
though, the bumpkins will gossip lies anyway because that is
all they have. This behavior is typical of people with a
low sense of self-worth with good reason.
My
Mother is a lady, as are/were ALL of the Women in My Family
on all sides for as many generations as I can count. I grew
up with and continue to be surrounded by a lot of love.
Perhaps, this (also known as “good breeding” and “good home
training”) is why I have no sense of jealousy for any other
person and the ability to genuinely be happy for and wish
other people well. I do not revel in the pains of others,
not even those I intensely dislike due to their offenses
against Me. Such behavior subtracts from your own worth and
attracts negativity to you. I am enough in Myself that I do
not need to waste energy “dissing” others when I could put
that energy into doing more things to honor and love Myself.
I am
disgusted by people who do not love or value themselves. I
call these creatures
“gruesomes”
because they are not only ugly on the inside, they are
inevitably ugly on the outside. Instead of seeking to
improve the conditions of their lives, they seek to belittle
everyone and everything in order to feel comfortable in
their gruesomeness. They create communities of others like
them to wallow in the muck and mire of the pathetic excuses
for lives they choose to create while seeking out those of
Us who
truly are fabulous
to lie, cheat, and attempt to sling into the feculence of
their miserable realities.
A True
Lady does not discuss the details of Her love affairs or
such matters that are usually put into that category. If
She has cause to mention the departed lover, She refrains
from any displays of negativity – especially in public and
particularly around gruesomes.
I will
NEVER speak ill of anyone I have had any sort of
relationship (or attempts at relationships) with because I
have too much self-respect to have the need to besmirch
another person. This is evident in the way I have never
spoken ill of the silly
dummes who have attempted to gain attention for
themselves by telling lies on Me – and they’re still telling
those same, old, tired, lies that have been exposed! People
with a sense of low-self-worth do not ever realize that a
person’s truths are evident based on their merits, which is
why like attracts like and the fabulous associate with the
fabulous and the gruesomes hang with the gruesomes. Take a
good look around you.
I am
evolved enough as a human being to understand that every
person is
unique to your experience
and that when people don’t click, you should move on. I
accept responsibility for My actions, which include choosing
to stay in/leave situations with the goal of My happiness.
Because I not only value Myself, I honor My integrity and I
choose to remember the positive qualities that I found
attractive in people who are now in My Past. I encourage
everyone to do the same to reject negative feelings that do
not serve you. If you love yourself, you do not need to
have contempt for anyone you attempted to love.
When all the
gossip buzzes around you like flies to manure, take a good
look at the perpetrators, and see just how gruesome they
are. There’s value to the adage:
Consider the source.
Sometimes, you can judge a book by its cover.
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