Darling Miss P,
I wrote an entry in an earlier
edition of
My Newsletter about
Keeping Cool With Karma
which addresses exactly your issue! I have reprinted
it below. Please note that I write My advice from My
perspective, owning My responsibility for My choices and
actions:
DOMINA 101 TIP:
Keeping Cool With
Karma. I believe that everyone can make a
mistake and I am generous with giving people opportunities
to be cool in My Domain. Again, My Motto is
Don't start none, won't be none,
so the only times that I encounter problems with people is
because they forgot themselves ~ I'll explain.
There are
far too many folks pretending to be representative of the
"face they show to the world" - especially in The Fetish
Scene. They lie, cheat, make up stories about Me
because they feel a serious lack of value within themselves
- (the "Void"). Something about Me (or you) triggers their
ability for true-self-reflection and they recognize that
they are not the façade that they work too hard to convince
people and themselves of. So, instead of being inspired by
Me (or you), they become "ired" (angered
via jealousy and recognition that they are not what they
want to believe they are) by My Truth and want to punish Us for the fact that they are
"less-than." This is an incredibly stupid and lascivious
practice that ultimately gets them in trouble, causes "unpleasantries,"
and leaves them deeper in
"personal debt"
(The recognition of how much one is lacking as a person -
usually due to the practice of making lower-energy choices
which inevitably lead to a spiritual-emotional-self-love
Void.). I do My best to "Guide
them to become inspired instead of ired,"
~ meaning, choose
to direct the less-evolved to avoid jealousy when they can
take the high road to self-love via My inspiration.
I have always graciously
given people "another chance" and, unfortunately, they
seldom appreciate such a gift. I have had people look Me in
My face and lie to Me to sabotage My events and projects;
steal from Me; cost Me money; twist My (or others') words
around to try to cause trouble (see
My Blog post regarding Mollena); accuse Me of
doing the low-life things that they would do ~ anything to
try to bring Me down to their sad, little levels of
awareness. You've noticed that I have cut certain people
out of My Domain (you suddenly don't see them mentioned in
My Newsletters; you don't see them at events with Me any
more; I no longer promote their works; etc., and I don't
speak ill of them, which would be beneath Me). There is a
VERY good reason I have removed them.
(See
Outting or Protecting
and
Handling My Stalkers - How To Deal With A Stalker.)
I know that Karma is a
magnificent thing and
I always wish accelerated karma for
everyone ~ Myself included.
This is why
I don't "do retaliation." When reality
catches up to offenders, that Void becomes so large that all
they can see is how much they miss the Beauty of My
Energies. Those who evolve will come back ~ how they come
back determines whether or not I will allow them access to
My Domain ever again. If they really believe the
stupidity that led them to attempt to take advantage of My
generosity, they will remain on the fringes with that Void
growing ever deeper. If they recognize that they had a
"brain fart moment," I may give them the opportunity to
prove their worthiness of knowing My kindness again.
MOST
important is that they offer a proper apology, which most
creeps would rather die than do!
They always come back -
always. After all,
I have what they
want and I do
just fine without them. And I sleep peacefully at night
with a clear conscience.
Forgive the
offenders. I understand that it is a lack of
self-love that causes people to offend Me. I do pity them,
but just enough to make sure that
I don't do anything
to actually cause damage to them. I forgive
those who have attempted to steal from Me, take advantage of
My kindness, and I even forgive those who have rewritten
history to somehow make Me wrong when their horrid behavior
caused Me to take action to save their lives from people
threatening to "eliminate" them ~ and I mean this
literally.
I do not have to do
anything to offenders, nor would I ever cause damage to MY
KARMA, when the offenders' behaviors will balance things out
just fine - I've seen the truth of Karma in action on many,
many occasions.
The issue is whether the offenders can forgive themselves...
One can have a lot of fun with that... and I usually do!
"To err is human; to
forgive, divine" (Alexander Pope) and I truly am a
Goddess incarnate... And it takes work!
Here are some resources for
Forgiveness and for keeping your karma straight!
You will
also find
great benefit
from
My Concepts for Forgiveness.
The Forgiveness
Project works at a local, national, and
international level to help build a future free of conflict
and violence by healing the wounds of the past. By
collecting and sharing people’s stories, and delivering
outreach programs, The Forgiveness Project encourages and
empowers people to explore the nature of forgiveness and
alternatives to revenge.
6 Timeless Thoughts
on Forgiveness from The Positivity Blog. I
recommend subscribing to this blog ~ very good stuff!
The Gift of
Forgiveness with a wonderful video
Learning To Forgive - a good how-to guide
In conclusion, I have seriously
contemplated the concept of loving a person in order to
forgive them. Sometimes, you just have to say, "I love you
enough to forgive you and so that I don't hurt you, I
completely release you." That works, too. There is no rule
that says you have to keep an offender in your Domain.
There is no rule that says you have to like a person in
order to forgive them, either. Forgiveness is for you and
your self-love first and foremost. By being the example,
you lead.
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