Dear perturbed,
As anyone who is familiar with
Me should know by now, I have NO tolerance for bad
behavior. This is why I recently ejected a troll from a
party and posted
You Won't Like My Events If...
And I have been VERY generous
in how I've handled his sad, little creature. I didn't have
to "out" him; he did it himself with ludicrous attempts to
destroy My Domain while unwittingly serving Me better than
if I'd commanded him to serve!
If you didn't know, this
creep contacted everyone in his "friends" list on a
networking site to warn them that I "threw [him] out for
singing and talking to a beautiful woman." he continues to
stalk
Me by contacting EVERYONE who responds to Me on forum posts
with his nonsense (if only he'd put half that effort into
becoming a better person). Since birds of a feather
flock together, folks who would believe a story like his are
too stupid to attend any of My events in the first place.
So, while I believe that creatures like him are the reason
that birth control should be free and sterilization
mandatory, I couldn't
pay for better service to
My Purpose (not that I would have to)!
The only sad things from this
situation are that the 5 people who complained about him
at the party had to endure him in the first place and that
the "beautiful woman" was a newbie and has told Me that she
is now too "creeped out" to attend any fetish events for a
while.
This is a perfect example of how a distasteful individual is
free to offend Us and discourage others from
exploring the Beauties of The Fetish Lifestyle
because no one has alerted the Community to his repugnance -
and how he even made it into My event at all.
I accept full responsibility for not following
My instincts - which I WILL do from now on - to deny him
admission when he arrived in full, creepy fashion. If being
disrespectful and
"turditudinous" (My new vocabulary word) are his
fetish, there are plenty of other events for him and his
kind to indulge in.
I will not allow admission to My Events to anyone who does
not show the proper respect from the moment they encounter
My Domain. Period. I love and respect My Guests and will
do everything to ensure Our good times!
Lately, I feel I am unique in
that money is not My god; nor do I produce events for the
sole purpose of making money. I design events for the
enjoyment of communing with like minds and like energies.
When someone offends Me and Mine, I believe it is My duty to
alert The Community to prevent others from being
disrespected and, perhaps, harmed by the offender. If more
people were responsible to Our Community and to the people
who trust Us, and if more people were brave enough to stand
up for what's right against wrong-doers, participating in
Our Community would actually be more pleasant instead of a
constant flow of dealing with situations where one hopes to
avoid having to navigate around "gruesomes."
I respect The Fetish
Lifestyle and I believe in having integrity in The Scene.
Sadly, far too many do not agree with having honorable
intentions and participate in lying, thieving, maligning,
and attempts to outright sabotage not only Me and Mine, but
many others who make contributions to the ability for Us to
enjoy Our Lifestyles. Eventually, the barbarians begin to
fight amongst themselves in their quests to build monopolies
as they run out of people to screw over. You see this
happen all the time.
One of the many reasons that
"certain" people dislike Me (aside from the obvious
jealousies and, that under no circumstances, do I permit
them to have free reign of My Domain) is that
I WILL TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT their
HEINOUS OFFENSES - and anyone who has ever
encountered them will easily recognize Truth. I also ensure
that I have proof to back up My statements. My motto is
Don't start none, won't be none; I finish it.
Over the years, I have received
"flack" from people who think that I should keep incidents
of bad behavior between Me and the offenders to Myself -
probably, because telling others threatens their safety
zones for exposure of their own bad behaviors. Fortunately,
I am clear that
I will continue to maintain circumstances for the utmost
safety in My Domain and protect My guests as a good Hostess
should.
Unfortunately, covert and
disreputable habits are what is to be expected as the norm
these days (and this is one reason why people are rioting on
Wall Street). To permit atrocities to go unpunished by
remaining silent only contributes to more atrocious behavior
in the future. I maintain that,
If you're not a part of the solution, you are a part of the
problem. Experience has
taught Me that exposure (and punishment) of offenders is the
best way to maintain the integrity of one's Domain and
protect the people you care about.
So, take My commitment to
excellence as an invitation to enjoy the safety of My Events
and My Domain with intelligent people who have respect,
class, and integrity. And take this as a warning, if you
are a troll in any way. My responsibility is to enjoying
The Best We Can Be and I will be responsible to Our
Community even if others are not.