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May 4th
We Thrive Again in 2010!
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Back
From Hiatus |
As many know, I have sustained immobilizing injuries which have prevented Me
from having FUN, creating parties and events, and from doing much of
anything -- which totally sux.
Fortunately, I am not a person to be surprised by the bad behaviors of
people and while I have been immobilized in pain, people felt free to call Me to ask for
something, but they did not ask if I needed anything.
However, I'm not one to EVER be down and
out for too long. I have a few new things in the works. While I
have been recuperating, I had plenty of time to contemplate how I choose to
fine-tune My Domain. I am bored with the same-ol'-same-ol' and
I am committed to creating
Better Fetish™
in all that I enjoy!
Up next is
My ClassicFetish™
Meet & Greet in celebration of
the 2010 NYC Fetish Marathon! See below for details! Once again,
am the ONLY person who is using this magnificent, Community opportunity to
raise funds for charity.
Coming soon will be
My Webcam Workshops
and there's an opportunity for you to have what amounts to a free
sneak-peak! Read on...
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first to know of all the goodies to come!
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My
Next Party on June 4th! |
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Mistress Didi*’s
ClassicFetish™ Meet & Greet
Pre-Play Party Benefit!
A pre-celebration for
The Mistress Didi*s
launch of
BetterFetish.org
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The
Mistress Didi*s 2010 NYC Fetish Marathon Meet & Greet
is a delightful opportunity to meet people you’d like to know & Play with at
the After-Party at the new and improved
Paddles
(NYC's only fully-furnished, dungeon club), at other parties, and beyond!
The focus is on
communication & intellectual stimulation to accommodate the thrill of
celebrating your Fetish Lifestyle while connecting with like minds! Indulge
in a beautiful, PRIVATE, intimate setting that is walking distance to the
After-Party venue! Mingle and mix with
The Mistress Didi*s
usual, delectable mix of Fetish Luminaries and enjoy chillax-groove music at
a comfortable level for conversation. “Fetish
Ambassadors” will introduce
guests to each other ~ no one will be left out of the fun!
Admission is
FREE with the purchase of at least 1 raffle ticket
($2 each, 3 for $5) for
The Mistress Didi*s
Annual Fetish Marathon
Charity Donation.
Raffle donations are contributed from the crème-de-la-crème of the NYC
Fetish Scene and across the USA to enhance the sense of Community! The
first 20 attendees will receive a special party favor that you can Play with
at the After-Party! Then, join Us at the
After-Party with
Domsub
Friends and
Master Vito
at the new and improved
Paddles
where
The Mistress Didi*s
Guests receive a special discount on admission!
Dress Code:
High Fetish; Fiercely Fashionable!
Novices welcome to Our
safe, sane & consensual environment.
Visit
www.PartyDomme.com
for location details. This year,
The Mistress Didi*
has arranged for Her party to be held in a quaint, beautiful, private venue
with delicious food! |
Visit
www.PartyDomme.com
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My
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Since I have been unable to get out, I've decided to allow you to come in!
I am going to conduct private, semi-private, and group
ClassicFetish™ Workshops
via webcam!Here's the very
special news: I am in the process of testing various web conferencing
programs. While I am doing this, I will conduct a few Workshops for a
small, $10
donation to one of
My Charities!
This is your opportunity to be charitable while gaining valuable knowledge!
Space will be extremely limited, so if you would like to take part during My
test drives,
click here and follow instructions.
Participation will be on a first-come, first-served basis.
In the meantime, (1) read about
My Webcam Workshops
and (2) enjoy a taste of
Domina 101 Wisdom
below!
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Domina 101 Tip |
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Dealing With Offenders With Karma &
Forgiveness |
One of the first
ClassicFetish™ Workshops
that I will present in the very near future will be a level of
Domina 101. In the meantime, in My ever-giving desire
to contribute to
BetterFetish™, I will share a
few tips on how I keep things cool in
My Domain.
Understand that True Power is Power With - not power over.
DOMINA 101 TIP:
Keeping Cool With Karma. I believe that everyone can
make a mistake and I am generous with giving people opportunities to be cool
in My Domain. Again, My Motto is
Don't
start none, won't be none, so the only times that I
encounter problems with people is because they forgot themselves ~ I'll
explain. There are far too many folks pretending to be representative
of the "face they show to the world" - especially in The Fetish Scene.
They lie, cheat, make up stories about Me/you because they feel a serious
lack of value within themselves - the "Void." Something about Me (or
you) triggers their ability for true-self-reflection and they recognize that
they are not the façade that they work too hard to convince people and
themselves of. So, instead of being inspired by Me/you, they become
"ired"
by My/your Truth and want to punish Us for the fact that they are
"less-than." This is an incredibly stupid and lascivious practice that
ultimately gets them in trouble, causes "unpleasantries," and leaves
them deeper in
"personal debt."
I have always graciously given people
"another chance" and, unfortunately, they seldom appreciate such a
gift. I have had people look Me in My face and lie to Me to
sabotage My events and projects; steal from Me; cost Me money;
twist My (or others') words around to try to cause trouble (see
My Blog post regarding Mollena); accuse Me of doing the
low-life things that they would do ~ anything to try to bring Me down to
their sad, little levels of awareness. You've noticed that I have
cut certain people out of My Domain (you suddenly don't see them
mentioned in My Newsletters; you don't see them at events with Me any
more; I no longer promote their works; etc., and I don't speak ill of
them (which would be beneath Me)). There is a VERY good reason I have
removed them. Out of respect for My and their privacy, I won't
divulge information on their offenses.
I know that Karma is a magnificent
thing and
I always wish accelerated karma for everyone ~ Myself included.
This is why
I don't "do retaliation." When reality catches up
to offenders, that Void becomes so large that all they can see is how
much they miss the Beauty of My Energies. Those who evolve will
come back ~ how they come back determines whether or not I will allow
them access to My Domain ever again (see
My Tribute
Page). If they really believe the stupidity that led
them to attempt to take advantage of My generosity, they will remain on
the fringes with that Void growing ever deeper. If they recognize
that they had a "brain fart moment," I may give them the opportunity to
prove their worthiness of knowing My kindness again.
They always come back - always.
After all,
I have what they want and I do just fine without them.
And I sleep peacefully at night with a clear conscience.
Forgive the offenders. I understand that it is a
lack of self-love that causes people to offend Me. I do pity them, but
just enough to make sure that
I don't do anything to actually cause damage
to them. I forgive those who have attempted to steal from Me, take
advantage of My kindness, and I even forgive those who have rewritten
history to somehow make Me wrong when their horrid behavior caused Me to
take action to save their lives from people threatening to "eliminate" them
~ and I mean this
literally.
I do not have to do anything to offenders, nor would I ever cause damage to
MY KARMA, when the offenders' behaviors will balance things out just fine -
I've seen the truth of Karma in action on many, many occasions.
The issue is whether the offenders can forgive themselves... One can
have a lot of fun with that... and I usually do!
"To err is human; to forgive, divine"
(Alexander Pope) and I truly am a Goddess incarnate... And it
takes work! Here are some
resources for Forgiveness and for keeping your karma straight!
The Forgiveness Project
works at a local, national, and international level to help build a future
free of conflict and violence by healing the wounds of the past. By
collecting and sharing people’s stories, and delivering outreach programs,
The Forgiveness Project encourages and empowers people to explore the nature
of forgiveness and alternatives to revenge.
6 Timeless Thoughts on Forgiveness
from The Positivity Blog. I recommend subscribing to this blog ~ very
good stuff!
The Gift of Forgiveness
with a wonderful video
Learning To Forgive - a good how-to guide
In conclusion, I have seriously contemplated the concept
of loving a person in order to forgive them. Sometimes, you just have
to say, "I love you enough to forgive you and so that I don't hurt you, I
completely release you." That works, too. There is no rule that
says you have to keep an offender in your Domain. There is no rule
that says you have to like a person in order to forgive them, either.
Forgiveness is for you and your self-love first and foremost. By
being the example, you lead.
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My
Gift To You ~ My Free eBook! |
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So, I have created
How
To Properly
Present yourself To A Mistress
to continue to offer valuable resources to The Fetish Community while
raising funds for
My
charities! I LOVE creating win-win situations!
I am offering a
“FreeView”
where you can sample some of the wonderful techniques that I offer in
the
Full Version of
How To
Properly Present yourself To A Mistress,
which is only $7 – a fee low enough to allow Me to:
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Offer more people My
valuable knowledge in difficult financial times;
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Offer those who are
truly submissive and/or just beginning to explore their submissive
expressions an invaluable resource;
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Offer Dominants a quick and easy resource to contribute to the
restoration of the Beauty of The Fetish Community;
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Give The Fetish Community a powerful resource to improve conditions
resulting from the negativity that plagues Us from the mainstream
media and other exploiters; and
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Raise more funds for
My Charities.
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What I Do |
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Sadly, most people do not have a clue to what I do as a
Classic Fetish™ Therapist. Far
too many people are too lazy to read My websites and then, have the nerve to
make up their own silly fantasies about Who I Am and What I Do.
Due to the unfortunate decline in etiquette, class, and
respect, in general, of the state of The Scene during the past few years,
too many people choose to
believe that I fit into the category of the
dummes. They make the
terrible mistake of approaching Me improperly and are disappointed when I
refuse to allow their attempts to justify their stupidity.
I take the
Fetish Arts VERY seriously. I am offended by the
“sleezoid” creatures who not only give Fetish a bad name, but who refuse to
evolve past their selfishness and self-hatred and cause harm in a variety of
ways on a variety of levels.
So, I have simplified
What I Do on My Wepage,
The Mistress
Didi*s Career Choices
to clarify, educate, and clear away misconceptions. You'll be
surprised at what you don't know...
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Community
Tidbits |
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Classic Fetish™
Resources
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I have compiled
My Newsletter
Archives
where you can find wonderful info, fun-fetish
tidbits, and a variety of tips from Me.
Check it out!
~ Kindly refer people toThe Mistress Didi*s
Articles which include The
Importance of Rituals & Protocols, Domme vs. dumme,
and submissive vs. substandard
Also, Easy Wig Care Tips!
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Speaking of articles, My "The Importance of Rituals
& Protocols" is now presented in THE
VOYEUR, the internet magazine of
Domsub Friends!
~ PLEASE
refer folks to
My
GoddessGlide™ ~ How To Walk In High Heels video
so that We can appreciate the shoes without gasping at Frankensteinish-clunking
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Fun Stuff! |
After dealing with the "duh" zone,
I took some time to enjoy Myself! I found some cool stuff to bring joy
and help spread the cheer!
 In
case you didn't know, I am very passionate about Quantum Physics.
Here is an excellent video of an interview with
Lynne McTaggart who explains Quantum Physics in a nutshell for Us
regular, non-egghead people!
 The
Universal Laws is just a magnificent read to keep your brain
thinking and assist you on your personal evolution journey. By all
means, pass it on!
Green Spring Cleaning and Toxic Free Living - wonderful, natural,
cleaning tips that are ecologically friendly and economically, too!
In this blog prepared by Certified Holistic Health Counselor
Irina
Wardas, you will find a veritable plethora of useful, health
information! The focus is for Women, but believe Me, men can benefit,
too! Be sure to sign up for the newsletter and get your free ebook!
The Wet Spots. From
their press kit: "Picture a
husband and wife team from the golden age of
comedy. Now picture them singing sweetly about threesomes and taking it in
the
[a##]. Internationally acclaimed cabaret duo The Wet Spots (Cass King and
John Woods) write the most elegant songs about sex that you will ever hear.
The pair presents an image that is vaudevillian, oversexed, and weirdly
Canadian: Think sex club by way of Monty Python. Using a lively blend of
original songs, audience interaction, spankings and singalongs, The Wet
Spots draw their fans into a world where the libido is celebrated and
satirized."
View video and enjoy!
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worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people
did not follow the easy instructions to
make sure
that Y/you receive My Emails.
So, here's a tip for easy viewing
of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column. Y/you should be
able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the
emails are from, the subject, etc. If Y/you click on the FROM tab,
your emails should sort alphabetically. The same goes for navigating
your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject, and other tabs to sort them
for easy reading. This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and
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Stimulating
Quote |
"Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength
lies. "
~ Mother Teresa
"We
have it in our power to begin the world over again.
~ Thomas
Paine
"The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
~
Mahatma Gandhi
"Always forgive your enemies -
nothing annoys them so much."
~
Oscar
Wilde
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Enjoy!
Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™
Therapist
Glamour Domme
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