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September 28, 200Gr8!

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Trampling Project

The handsome Mr. Anthony & Me at TesFest '08

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Resources, Fun Stuff!
through 10/10/08

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Transcendent Trampling
Demo with TES!
SensualSpanking
Demo with Conversio Virium

     Hurray!  I absolutely LOVE teaching
My TranscendentTrampling™ Workshop
and giving demos ~ like the one I will give for The Eulenspiegel Society (TES) on September 30th at 260 West 36th Street - 3rd floor, between 7th and 8th Avenues, NYC; $4 for members; $8 for non-members. 

I've mentioned before that TES is the oldest BDSM/Fetish organization in the United States and that it is important that you become a member to support their continuing efforts of building and educating the Community.  So, click the MEMBERSHIP link when you visit their website.  It's not expensive and you'll receive some nice perks.

In My last newsletter, I offered the fabulous opportunity for tramplees to experience The Art of Trampling The Mistress Didi* Way by volunteering to be My subjects for the demo.  I'm so glad that I did this!   First, I will have 3 people who have not experienced My Divine Techniques before, so this will make for a truly authentic and exciting experience for all at the demo!  Also, I get to meet 3 new people who may become part of My Fetish Family!  Life can be so good ~ if you let it!

     Monday, October 6, 2008, 9:15-11pm at 303 Hamilton Hall,
 1130 Amsterdam Avenue on 116th Street

Conversio Virium  is the Columbia University student BDSM education and discussion group.   CV’s meetings are open to any interested person of any race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation.   Conversio Virium is dedicated to discussion, education and peer support concerning BDSM issues.   All meetings are strictly confidential.  More...

 

     My 2 latest video gifts are:  MaxWax™ Skin Preparation and My Party Concept

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WANTED:
Tramplees for Trampling Project

The perks:  I will SAFELY and SKILLFULLY take you to a place where your senses transcend what you've ever experienced before and you will have the pleasure of being in My private space at a soiree with a few of My Friends.   I will tantalize you with bare feet and heels ~
this is the perfect opportunity to explore expert shoe trampling, especially if shoes and heels have been difficult for you to master in the past.   If I enjoy you, you will be invited back to Play with Me in the future.

The requirements for your participation: 1) you will be photographed and videotaped (you may wear a mask, your I.D. is required, age 18 and over) and you will be available for a minimum of 2 hours; 2) you will provide Me with a (click) Champagne Tribute; and 3) you will secure your commitment and make an online deposit of $25 OR make an in-person deposit where you will meet Me in Midtown Manhattan and buy a round of drinks for Me and My companion who will keep Me company while I meet you.  you can think of this as "special Mistress time" where you can actually have fun with Us if you are cool!  I do not tolerate My time being wasted and the online deposit is nothing to fear if you are righteous and can be trusted ~ I most certainly am and can. 

Click Here to present yourself to participate as a tramplee.

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The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory


One of My many contributions to The Fetish Arts is
 The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, which consists of a complete curriculum beyond the typical training for the Elegant Lady and the Superior Sissy Maid.  I have designed My techniques according to My beliefs in Fetish as an Evolutionary Process.  With precise instruction, the Woman Within can flourish, blossom, and emerge from the caterpillar to the butterfly.

As always, My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is at the forefront of the Conservatory's mission. 

Visit My My Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory website to discover the unique qualities that will bring forth the Woman Within with divine eloquence and excellence.  After all, W/we are all made up of equal parts of female and male, yang and yin.  Why should Women have all the fun with the fabulous lingerie and expressions of femininity in this world?  True, We have the liberties, but you should have the enjoyment as well in a safe, secure, and structured environment that supports the fulfillment of your desires!

Gatherings (including My famous Tea Parties), shopping, outings, and more!

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The Mistress Didi* & miss erin
photo by Sean Friedman Photography 

For a "freeview" of the type of detailed techniques that are standard at The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view the complimentary  How To Walk In High Heels demo video of samples from My GoddessGlide™ Workshop!

More about the video:  My GoddessGlide™ techniques work equally well when walking in flats as they do when walking in high heels.  And, most importantly, they are for everyone ~ females and males alike.  I developed My GoddessGlide™ techniques to alleviate stress on your leg joints, hips, spine, neck and to help your body rebalance from the effects of walking on concrete in these big cities so many of Us live in.

The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory is now OPEN with 2 locations (Midtown Manhattan & Jersey City) and incredible Grand Opening tuition specials!  There are no better tuition opportunities anywhere.  Check the website for tuition information.

NEW!  Easy Wig Care Tips!   Click on Complimentary!

Enter The Contest!

Win a scholarship!  Win a work-study internship!  A new winner is chosen each month during My Grand Opening!  Enter as many times as you'd like!   Check it out!

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Community News & Tidbits


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Classic Fetish™ Resources

~ The Mistress Didi*s Articles including How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme, submissive vs. substandard, and NEW ~ The cybertrog!  NEW: Easy Wig Care Tips!

~ Human Bird Cage for sale!  It's gorgeous and well-made.  I have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in there!   Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes) or I would snatch it up!  Click Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries.   Mind your manners.

~ Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.  I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.  I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!   I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.  AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.  CLICK HERE

***MORE CELL PHONE NEWS - California judge rules early cell phone termination fees illegal.  Now, DO YOUR PART - CLICK HERE.

Unique Handmade Bondage & SM Leather Gear ~ BIG NEWS  ~ Rawhide Cane Sale ~ TabooLeather.com sells rawhide canes at an incredible price!  How's $14.95 for you?  How about 2 styles in Natural, Purple, Black & Pink?  I want them all!!!!  Visit TabooLeather.com and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide".  The cane that I use in My My How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years ago!  So, take the opportunity to receive a great bargain!   Click the link to My How To Use A Rawhide Cane on the order page.

And while you're at Taboo Leather, create your own Wish List!  And visit My Wish List by typing in My email address ~ MistressDidi1@yahoo.com.

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PARTY NEWS!

From The Press Release:

~ The Next Baroness' Fetish Retinue!  Sunday, October 5th!

Doors open at 9pm, Uncle Mings, 225 Avenue B (13th & 14th streets above the liquor store), New York City

From The Baroness' Press Release:

"Sunday, October 5th It's The Baroness' Fetish Retinue Circus Bizarre! And for your evenings pleasure there's; a bevy of latex lovelies, bondage, bullwhips, and assorted animals. But the more the wilder, we're looking for assorted fetish freaks, fire eaters, pony people, furries, and MOST PARTICULARLY a contortionist who's into bondage. If you think you qualify and want to participate contact The Baroness; email Baroness@Baroness.com or phone 212 529 5964 from 2-7 . The rest of you be creative, dress, play, and listen to the sounds of DJ Frances.Eugenia [ether//false aristocracy].

The first Sunday of the month, this intimate fetish party’s location is Uncle Mings, 225 Avenue B, between 13th and 14th streets (above the liquor store), on the 2nd Floor, New York City. Doors open at 9pm

A firm believer that “Any occasion to dress is an occasion to overdress”, The Baroness rewards those who do so with FREE ADMISSION if you look absolutely fabulous, $5 in Fetish, $15 in all black, $20 in street wear, and $30 in sneakers, blue jeans, or white t shirts. Suggested attire: clowns, ring leaders, animals, animal trainers, and of course your best fetish finery.

For additional information call 212 529 5964 or visit www.Baroness.com.
A special note, our boutique will be closed Monday, October 6th to ensure full Fetish Retinue recovery!
 

For more information call 212 529 5964 or visit www.Baroness.com.

And so you can plan your party season wardrobe, themes and dates follow. If you’re into (or are) animals and circus freaks you’ll love the Octobers’ theme!

October 5th: Circus Freaks Dog-and-pony show
November 2nd: My Birthday and Masks
December 7: Deck the Halls at The Baroness’ Holiday Fetish Retinue party!  

The Baroness
www.Baroness.com

www.myspace.com/TheLatexBaroness

530 B East 13th Street
New York City, NY 10009
Monday-Saturday 2-7 Thursday 2-9

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~ Fabulous Photo Exhibit Opening

Friday, October 10th, 6-10pm, $10 donation at The LGBT Community Center Gallery, 208 West 13th Street (btw 7/8 Aves)

LC of Misfit Studios and ScottChurch exhibiting selected works from their book "Men" along with other images in a Group Art Exhibit at LBGTC.

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~ New York Leather Weekend!

NOTE:  I will give a Trampling Demo on Sunday, October 12th - time to be announced!

FROM THE PRESS RELEASE:

New York Leather Weekend Columbus Day Weekend, October 10-12, 2008

With it's nightlife in full-force and the huge success of last year’s first New York Leather Weekend, NYC's leather community has made a remarkable comeback, growing stronger than ever. This Columbus Day Weekend, October 10-12, we are proud to announce The 2nd Annual New York Leather Weekend and this years theme, ‘Return to the Mineshaft’. Featured events will include a multi-media retrospective of the infamous bar and era that started it all, a BDSM art retrospective & gallery, The Mr./Ms. NYC Leather 2009 Contest, NYC’s first ever all-gender leather competition, a multitude of parties, and of course, The West Village Leather Street Fest, returning to a bigger location in the Meat Packing District. To top it all off, the hub of this year’s events will be the LGBT Community Center, located in the heart of NYC’s historic West Village. To see a the full range of events and for sponsorship, advertising and volunteer opportunities, visit www.newyorkleatherweekend.com.

The Mr./Ms. NYC Leather 2009 Competition Saturday, October 11, 2008 With goals of fostering leadership within the NYC leather community and providing representation on an international level, this will be NYC's first all-gender, all inclusive Leather title competition. Prizes, auctions, and surprise entertainment, the winner of this title will advance onto either the International Mr. Leather or International Ms. Leather contests. This years judges will be:

International Mr. Leather 2005, Michael Egdes Founder of The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom, Susan Wright President of Iron Guard BC and MAsT NYC, Master Tip Former NY Panthers President & Leather Invasion Co-Founder CirrTone Owner of Purple Passion and former TES Board Member Hilton Flax Owner of Darrell's Dungeon & Leather Pride Night Committee Member, Darrell Perry Longtime NYC Leather Community Activist, writer, and former GMSMA Board member, Thor Stockman

To download an application or to find out more about the contest, sponsorship, advertising and volunteer opportunities, visit www.newyorkleatherweekend or contact Deb Williams at nylwcontest@gmail.com or Robert Valin at rvalin@leatherinvasion.com.

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Fun Stuff!

~ The Fold - If Torchwood's blend of science fictional sauciness left you unsatisfied, The Fold will probably hit all of your sweet spots. Time travel sex, inter-dimensional hot tubs, psychic S/M, orgasms from space and World Of Warcraft are just some of the bizarre SF concepts The Fold hits on.   Check out Episodes 1 to 4 of The Fold.

~ Sado Mazo - Great lifestyle dramatization similar to My lifestyle (except I allow My subs to have their own beds)!  Lots of fun!  Watch it here!

~ Darth Vader in Love - This needs no further introduction.  Enjoy!

~ Something Fabulous!  Judy Chicago's "The Dinner Party" Exhibit at The Brooklyn Museum.   Take the virtual tour of an absolutely, phenomenal work by artist Judy Chicago, which is housed at The Brooklyn Museum in New York City.  If you are lucky enough to see it in person, do so!  You won't regret it.  Plus, The Brooklyn Museum has one of (if not "the") largest collections of Egyptian artifacts in the world!

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Good Works!  Please visit these sites daily and sponsor, if you can!

~ The Animal Rescue Site FROM THE SITE:  The Animal Rescue Site focuses the power of the Internet on a specific need — providing food for some of the 27 million unwanted animals given to shelters in the U.S. every year. Over 10 million animals are put to death every year in the U.S. alone because they are abandoned and unwanted.  Each click on the purple "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button at The Animal Rescue Site provides food and care for a rescued animal living in a shelter or sanctuary. Funding for food and care is paid by site sponsors and distributed to animals in need at The Fund for Animals' renowned animal sanctuaries (including Cleveland Amory Black Beauty Ranch in Texas and The Fund for Animals Wildlife Center in Southern California), pet shelters supported by the Petfinder Foundation, North Shore Animal League, and other worthy animal care facilities supported by the GreaterGood.org foundation.  100% of sponsor advertising fees goes to our charitable partners.   While you are on the site, please click the tabs at the top and click to donate to other fabulous charities.

~ Care2.com.  FROM THE SITE: Our premise is simple: To help you make a difference.  Care2 provides powerful tools to make a difference in your life, community, country and world. It’s driven by passionate people (just like you) who want to restore the world’s balance.   With more than 9 million members and 400 nonprofit partners, Care2 is the largest and most trusted information and action site for people who care to make a difference.  Whether you’re passionate about green living, health & wellness, human rights or protecting the environment, Care2 puts the tools for change in your hands.  Take a moment and discover some of the ways that Care2 enables you to make a difference for yourself, your family and the world!  Oh, did we mention we donate 5% of our website advertising revenues (not just profits!) to nonprofit organizations? In addition to helping you make a difference, we're "walking the walk" every day. 

~  Homeless Gear(ESPECIALLY NOW THAT SUMMER IS OFFICIALLY "OVER", DONATE YOUR STUFF!) - The mission of Homeless Gear is a simple one. Collect unwanted outdoor gear (packs, sleeping bags, etc) and re-distribute these items to the homeless. Homeless Gear intends to find a home for all unwanted outdoor gear and make the outdoors a little more like home for those without permanent shelter.  A segment of the homeless community can not gain entrance into overnight shelters because they have issues with drug or alcohol use. Even if they do find overnight shelter they have to spend the majority of their day outside in the elements. Imagine what a sleeping bag would do for someone forced to sleep or spend the day in their car or under a bridge.

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

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Spam Folder Tip


I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

And be certain to CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER every day!

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See, Play, and Party with Y/you very, VERY soon!

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Stimulating Poem


RISK
Author unknown

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out to others is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To place your ideas, your dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To hope is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.

But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to do nothing.

The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing.

They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live.

Chained by their attitudes, they are a slave*, they forfeited their freedom.

Only the person who risks can be free.

* Note: That's not the good kind of slavery! 


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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™ Therapist
Glamour Domme

 

 

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