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My Articles always make
people think ~ something they should do more often. In particular, two
of My Articles,
Domme v. dumme and
submissive v. substandard, do two things:
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they give solace to
those people who respect Fetish and The Scene to know that its despicable
deterioration in value due to behavior of others is not all that's left of
The Scene and We are not alone; and
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they allow people
with these bad behaviors to recognize themselves and their associates in
ways they don't wish to acknowledge and this incites passionate needs to
attempt to make Me wrong for what I live as truth.
Of course, this never works and these people prove every point I make in
My Articles about their kind.
Due to recent,
unprofessional, and unpleasant events in the NYC Professional Domination
Scene, tempers have flared, emotions are high, and the silly people come out
in rare form. Those of Us Who LIVE The Scene are always bemused by the
"visitors" who want to lecture Us on "how things are."
Below is a response to a
newbie's insistence on lecturing ME on what the ProDomination and Lifestyle
Scenes are all about. In reality, he was attempting to pontificate to
mask the recognition of the fact that his experience in The Scene is greatly
"dummified" and his fantasy has been shaken by the truth I present and
represent. I figure
since I took the time to further explain My thoughts to him, I will allow
him to be of further use and share with you what I wrote to further clarify My distinctions between REAL Dominants and "hoochies".
Hopefully, I won't find a need to explain simple concepts any further.
(LOL!) As a side note, there are
many misconceptions that ProDommes are not Lifestyle ~ many are, many are
not. EVERY ProDomme that I associate with is completely Lifestyle.
Lifestyle does not have anything to do with money exchanges or the lack
thereof. As the word means, Lifestyle is about how One lives One's
life. My response
to the person's reaction to My use of the terms "dumme" and "REAL Domme":
As you've pointed out, this is all about opinion and
experience - yours and Mine. I live what I describe where the VAST
majority of people on [message board name] only "visit". So, the blur between what you think
of in terms of ProDomination and Lifestyle is based on what you've lacked in
your experience in The Scene.
This is not a dig; I am pointing out that the difference in quality of
expression of Domination in The Scene has declined with the rapid influx of
dummes.
The word "professional" connotes that one performs the activity as a
profession, for a living, for remuneration. This is not exclusive to how the
professional expresses the activity in all areas of Her or his life.
Think of it in terms of dancing. There are dancers and there are dancers.
Just because some person is swinging on a pole for money to music does not
put her/him in the same class as the dancer who has spent the time learning
technique, practicing, perfecting, and who has honored to the Art of Dance.
The same applies for ProDomination. In My experience, the lack of respect
for The Scene has been fostered by dummes and expressed in the deplorable
behaviors of their disrespectful clients.
This is an abomination for the beauty of
Fetish as Therapeutic Art
which I, and ALL of the P/people in The
Scene whom I know and associate with regularly, steadfastly believe in.
We live in a place of intense, loving harmony with Our Fetishes and
that can only be achieved and appreciated when the proper respect for The
Fetish Lifestyle is given.
When one chooses to only be a visitor to The Scene, s/he still needs to show
the respect that those of Us Who ARE The Scene give to It and to each Other.
dummes
and
substandards
ruin it for all by making the mainstream
misconceptions of The Scene into even worse sordid realities.
Those people who are searching for the type of personal and spiritual growth
and evolution that Fetish can give have an increasingly difficult time
finding The Beautiful Fetish World because the disrespectful creatures blemish The
Scene with their greed, stupidity, and tabloid exploits.
MY Pleasure,
The Mistress
Didi*
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My latest contribution to The Fetish Arts is
The
Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory,
which consists of a complete curriculum beyond the typical training for the
Elegant Lady and the Superior Sissy Maid. I have designed My
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Process. With precise instruction, the Woman
Within can flourish, blossom, and emerge from the
caterpillar to the butterfly.
As
always, My
Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is
at the forefront of the Conservatory's
mission.
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Gatherings (including My famous Tea Parties), shopping, outings, and more!
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Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view the complimentary How
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More about the
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You can also view My newest video gift,
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Classic Fetish™
Resources ~
The Mistress Didi*s
Articles including The Importance
of Rituals & Protocols, How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme,
submissive vs. substandard, and NEW ~ The cybertrog!
NEW: Easy Wig Care Tips!
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Human Bird Cage for sale!
It's gorgeous and well-made. I
have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in
there! Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the
nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes)
or I would snatch it up!
Click
Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries. Mind your manners.
Click the pic to view the video!
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Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.
I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to
deal with cell phone company complaints. Now, of course, the process
is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get
you running around in circles. However, if enough people follow the
proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -
cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous
crimes. I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it
EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO. Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery! I have made it easy for you. Now,
DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone. AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.
CLICK HERE
***MORE CELL PHONE NEWS -
California
judge rules early cell phone termination fees illegal. Now,
DO YOUR PART
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CLICK HERE.
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BIG NEWS ~ Rawhide Cane Sale ~
TabooLeather.com
sells rawhide canes at an incredible price! How's
$14.95 for
you? How about 2 styles in
Natural, Purple, Black & Pink?
I want them all!!!! Visit TabooLeather.com
and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide". The
cane that I use in My My How To Use A
Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years
ago! So, take the opportunity to receive a great
bargain! Click the link to
My How To Use A Rawhide
Cane on the order page.
And while you're at Taboo Leather, create your own
Wish List!
And visit
My Wish List by typing in My email address ~
MistressDidi1@yahoo.com.
 PARTY NEWS!
From The Press Release:
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PARADISE
LOST ~ HALLOWEEN! Friday, October 31st!
A PORTION OF THE PROCEEDS FROM
THIS EVENT SHALL BE DONATED TO THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY
FROM THE PRESS RELEASE:
PARADISE LOST's HALLOWEEN COSTUME
PARTY: "THE PENTACLE OF PERVERSITY"
FRIDAY OCTOBER 31st 10PM SHARP!
THIS SHALL BE A "VERY" INTIMATE EVENT, LOCATION KNOWN TO TICKET HOLDERS
"ONLY"
"ONLY" 200 TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE FOR THIS EVENT ON "ALL HALLOWS EVE" !
ONLY $15 PER, DRESS TO IMPRESS, COSTUME IS REQUIRED , OR BE IN YOUR BEST
FETISH ATTIRE ! TIGHT DOOR , NO TICKET "NO ENTRY" !
THIS NIGHT IS A SPECIAL BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION FOR "THE
BARONESS"
SPECIAL GUEST HOSTs from "HedoONLINE" Lola , & Lady Jessica Sovereign .
A SENSUAL PERFORMANCE OF CABARET NOIR BY :: Lady Earienne de Grey ~
Lady Thera ~ & Sir Victor A. Noirlocke @ 2am!
BE SALACIOUS , SCANDALOUS , & SCANTILY CLAD IN LATEX , RUBBER , LEATHER or
LACE , .... enjoy the night Gotham "reclaim IT" and evolve ! Its a new era .
You may purchase tickets from "me" Romello @ Halloween Adventure store
located 104 4th Avenue @ 11th street Manhattan NY . I shall be there
every Thursday &
Friday evening 6PM - 8PM
in the shoe department in the center of the store. you will receive a 10%
discount on costume purchases @ GOTHIC RENAISSANCE & HALLOWEEN ADVENTURE
when you present your ticket stub at the counter .
(THIS OFFER NOT VALID AFTER
OCTOBER 31st
)
YOUR HOSTS & PRODUCERS OF PARADISE LOST : LADY VALFREYJA & ROMELLO )O(>;=}~
CO-HOSTS : Mistress La Morta & Herra "C"
PARADISE LOST is produced & presented to the fetish community the last
Friday of each month. A DANCE ~ DRINK & SERIOUS PLAY PARTY devoid of
judgment and preconceived notions. Play equipment for general use.
email :
PL9SINS@yahoo.com
or text only to :
646-977-2024
Be certain to
respect party protocols.
More info...
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The Baroness' Fetish Retinue!!!!
November 2nd! at The
Slipper Room,
167 Orchard Street (btw Stanton & Orchard
Streets)
From The Baroness' Press Release:
I've been holding off on this [announcement]
because as you know we lost our space for my Fetish Retinue party and I
couldn't find that perfect location; and I must admit I was beginning to
panic! After all, not only is this the 9th year anniversary it's also my
birthday party (2 days late) so, I really needed the perfect place to
celebrate and receive all those fabulous presents! (helpful hints, large
sparkly jewelry, champagne, Pol Roget preferred, and of course shoes and
boots in size 9.) Today the Slipper Room was confirmed so I'll expect to see
you all there. Also don't forget that it's daylight savings this weekend.
(And don't even think of being too tired to attend after all your other
Halloween weekend revelry, because this party will be the last of the season
as I look for a permanent home.)
Sunday, November 2nd, It's The Baroness' Fetish Retinue birthday party! And
an evening of deviant bacchanalia! Of course there'll be the usual
assortment of latex lovelies, great music by DJ Frances.Eugenia
[ether//false aristocracy], bondage, bullwhips, I'm bringing the amazing
"Spank-O-Matick for those taking birthday spanks (I have such delicate
hands!) birthday cake, and of course lots of presents!
Remember, this intimate fetish soiree is at a new location;
The Slipper Room,
on the corner of Stanton and Orchard streets, 1 block south of Houston, New
York City. Doors open at 9:00
Come prepared to play, dress in your wildest wears, and don’t forget gifts
for your hostess! Admission is $30 if you must wear blue jeans or white
sneakers, otherwise $20, or $15 if you wear all black, $5 in Fetish, and
FREE if our door ferret deems you fabulous. Dress code suggestions for this
month’s party: hoods, head-to-toe rubber, gas masks, and other strange
rubber contraptions.
For more information, visit
www.Baroness.com.
Happy Halloween!
I Remain,
The Baroness
www.Baroness.com
www.myspace.com/TheLatexBaroness
530 B East 13th Street
New York City, NY 10009
Monday-Saturday 2-7 Thursday 2-9
December 7: Deck the Halls at The Baroness’ Holiday Fetish Retinue
party!
See Y/you at the Parties! And don't be shy; come on over and say hello! Just be sure to mind your manners....
Fun Stuff!
~ Drop Spots - A
dropspot is a kind of alternative mailbox. It’s a hiding place in a public
space, where people can leave things for exchange. Anything. It’s a
wierd and wonderful way to add personal character to the streets that we
live in. Stash something fun and see what you get back. To find a Drop
Spot in your neighborhood, visit the
Drop Spots
map. Select a Drop Spot map marker near you, make note of its location and
visual description and head out the door to find it! Once you locate the
spot and discover your mystery gift, make sure to leave one in its place to
keep the exchange going. For gift tips and ideas visit the FAQ page.
~~ Note: It looked like
fun, so I tried it and someone must have been psychic and knew I was
coming because there was a little, glass SHOE in the Drop Spot!
Hmmmmmm.....
~ Brain Teasers and Games for the
Brain:
Test your Brain - It is always good to stimulate our minds
and to learn a bit about how our brains work. Here you have a selection of
the 50 Brain Teasers that people have enjoyed the most in their blog and
speaking engagements.
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Batman:
Dead End (short) - There are no words to describe how well
this was done. Notice the cape...
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The
Funniest Batman Skit - Every time I watch this, I laugh as hard
as I did the first time! Enjoy!
Good Works!
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The Rescue Sites.
The
GreaterGood Network of websites, owned and operated by
CharityUSA.com, LLC., is a family of online activism sites that harness the
power of the Internet to help people, animals, and causes in need.
These websites bring together communities that care, giving you the power to
make a difference in the world with simple, every day actions. You can
benefit leading nonprofit organizations by choosing from a range of
activities including clicking on the free contribution button daily, and
shopping for gifts, apparel, jewelry, and home décor in their do-good stores
to give even more funding. Included are The Hunger Site, The Animal
Rescue Site, The Literacy Site, The Child Health Site, The Rainforest Site,
The Breast Cancer Site, and other worthy causes. Please click once per
day on each.
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Homeless Gear. The mission of Homeless Gear is a simple one. Collect unwanted outdoor gear (packs, sleeping bags, etc) and re-distribute these items to the homeless. Homeless Gear intends to find a home for all unwanted outdoor gear and make the outdoors a little more like home for those without permanent shelter. A segment of the homeless community can not gain entrance into overnight shelters because they have issues with drug or alcohol use. Even if they do find overnight shelter they have to spend the majority of their day outside in the elements. Imagine what a sleeping bag would do for someone forced to sleep or spend the day in their car or under a bridge.
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FreeRice
is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing
your vocabulary. So, it is not only good for you, it is great for
your kids. For each word that you correctly know the meaning of,
several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl. When the bowl
is full, you continue to create another bowl. The bowls of rice you
create are donated to starving nations. The site keeps track
of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of
words. So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.
I contribute at least 1000 grains every day. Go for it!
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