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About MssDidi

Expressing Herself as The Party Domme, Mss Didi* designs public and private ClassicFetish™ Events (many of which are charity fundraisers) which include parties, workshops and performances that express Fetish as Therapeutic Art. In Her quest to change the public’s negative view of Fetish to a positive and educated one, Mss Didi* promotes Fetish Appreciation and regularly writes articles, appears in the media, and gives lectures on and demonstrations of the Fetish Arts. As a ClassicFetish™ Therapist, Mss Didi*s practice is designed to help you expand your entire life ~ mind, body and spirit ~ through the appreciation of Fetish and how you express it. The goal is to come to terms with your Fetish, educate yourself to safe practices, and find healthy ways to express it in your private environment and with those you care about. Mss Didi* prides Her successes in helping couples discover how Fetish can be integrated into their lives together in a manner that respects both parties. Most often, couples discover new realms to improve their relationships and enhance their sensual and sexual love for each other. Mss Didi* carefully guides you in the steps you need to take in your self-acceptance, presentations to loved ones, and the progress of your relationships as they develop. As well as being the Founder of The Fetish League, Mss Didi* is a Model, Speaker, Author, Fetish Facilitator, Certified Hypnotherapist, Certified Psychotherapist, Certified Nutritionist, Certified Aromatherapist, and a graduate of The Institute of Culinary Arts with a specialty in vegetarian cooking. A former professionally trained dancer, Mss Didi* choreographs creative Fetish Performances to further enhance the understanding of the social benefits of the beauty of the BDSM and D/s Lifestyle. As a Fetish Performance Artist, Mss Didi* creates scenes with elegance, sophistication and grace that rise above and beyond the mainstream comprehension of sexual limitations into true works of sensual Art and Beauty for those involved and those observing. It is here that the Euphoria of Fetish is experienced, shared and cultivated and a deep sense of contentment is achieved.

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So It Begins…

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I Am Now To Be Called
“Mss. Didi*”

My Fetish Evolution

Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving

Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)

Really READ: How To Attend My Events

10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO

No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*


My Fetish Evolution: Stage 1

~ Because I Love My Fetish Reality
~ Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving
~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ “No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi*
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


Being The Change I Want To See In The World

My Fetish Evolution: Phase 1

For more than a decade , as I’ve watched sleaze become increasingly synonymous with “Fetish” and the rise of dangerous kinksters tarnish The Scene, I contemplated changing MY Title of Mistress — which I earned and was bestowed upon Me by My Fetish Family in a beautiful ceremony — to remove association of My Excellence from fakers-shakers-takers-noise-makers.

As I’ve mentioned, the only reason I produce Fetish Events is because I don’t like what others are doing.  And because money is not My god, My Events are charity fundraisers. which adds the cherry-on-top of MY Enjoyment of MY Fetish Fun.  I am a Giver and interested only in those who know how to receive and reciprocate.

At this point in time, and particularly, in New York City, it has become necessary for Me to launch a full-scale, Fetish Evolution to bring back integrity, intelligence, elegance, respect, and excellence to The Scene with a REAL focus on being safe, sane, and consensual without question.  Because I love My Fetish Reality, this Fetish Evolution must begin with Me.  So, I have released emotional attachment to a Title that no longer serves Me.

From now on, I am to be called, “Mss Didi.”

“Mss” is the evolution of the devalued term, “Mistress,” back to ClassicFetish™
and forward to define a New Era of Fetish Quality.

Throughout My lifetime, My Fetish Enjoyments and identity as a Quality Fetishist has made Me feel thrilled to be alive!  I want to feel thrilled, excited, and delighted again about engaging with a community of Quality Fetishists Who Are On My Level — people who:

  • Are educated and continue to educate themselves in technique and mind-body-spirit health to offer and gain the best in and from their Fetish Experiences;
  • Are well-mannered; self-controlled; self-aware; and interested in contributing to Excellence for all involved;
  • Desire to associate with others to be pleasant and create good times; and
  • Know their worth and are generous with themselves and others.

I was a little girl the first time I saw THIS scene from Tommy The Movie by The Who.  It was a defining moment in My Life and it is one of the best representations of how I feel when I indulge in My Fetish Enjoyments.  My goal is to feel this way in My NYC Fetish Fun again!  That’s the incomparable, Ann Margret indulging in bubbles, baked beans, and chocolate…

Soirees

In the last issue of My Newsletter, I mentioned that due to the many, many and increasing in numbers of good, Fetish folks being attacked and shut-down by pathetic manipulators who are allowed to go unpunished and can easily affect YOU, My Rules and Policies for My Events continue to attract the trust of even more and more respectable and responsible people for private adventures. AND I made inference to a Private Members Fetish Club where you ARE safe — both physically and personally — and you know that you will associate with the type of Fetishists that you want to be with and whom you can trust.

In the works are a few easy events that I am scheduling for after the “Horror-days” of shopping hell are over.  So, look for announcements soon; enjoy whatever you celebrate; and be kind and respectful of what others celebrate, too!


Why I Don’t Do Thanksgiving

It’s that time of year and, earlier than ever before — even before Halloween — We are bombarded by holiday commercials and commercialism.  So, time for a laugh and some serious insight into what We put Ourselves through for tradition…

Originally written November 25, 2009

First, My many thanks to all of the wonderful people who invited Me to their Thanksgiving feasts!  It was so thoughtful and gracious of them and I consider it quite an honor to be asked to share their dinners with them.  Really, I am truly aware of how blessed I am to be cared for by so many. (To those who invited Me and read this, I expect you to be laughing at most of it as you do!  Be certain to invite Me to other gatherings, though!)

So, as I politely declined, I waited a day or two and then told My real reasons for not doing Thanksgiving:

1)  I am predominantly vegetarian and I have not eaten turkey for more than 20 years.  Since any type of meat or poultry in food will make Me ill, I always say that I’m a bummer at Thanksgiving dinners, but the truth is that I’m bummed at the boring salad that awaits Me, or worse, at the cook who thinks a “little bit of” whatever won’t “hurt” Me until I’m vomiting… and attempting to make it look like an accident while I aim it at the favorite rug or couch…

2)  I don’t like making people feel uncomfortable in their domains because I am not participating in the gluttony-fest.   Aside from the fact that people always feel sorry for Me that I don’t eat “meat” while I feel sorry for them that they do,  I have to endure the, “that’s how you stay in that shape” conversations.  This inevitably comes from the fattest person at the gathering, speaking with that second piece of pie in hand.

3)  Since I usually have to eat before I go to Thanksgiving dinner to ensure that I don’t get hungry, what’s the sense in going out if I’ve already cooked and can stay home and watch the football game?  And if I watch the game at someone’s home, I’m usually the only woman with all the males and the females get their feathers ruffled more than usual when I’m in a room.  Little do they know ~ or maybe they do know ~ that the only thing I would want their men to do is grovel at My feet with tributes.

4)  There are usually children at these affairs.  I don’t have the patience or the ability to be polite enough (and I have so much more politeness than seems to be the norm – especially these days) to tolerate “little precious” and the sugar-high s/he will be on the whole evening until the tryptophan kicks in.  And usually, with children, this never happens soon enough.

5)  Someone inevitably thinks I’m actually going to help ~ or even offer to help ~ in the kitchen or clear the table or something…

6)   I gave up illegal drugs before leaving My teens and there isn’t a drug in the world that can make Me able to deal with “family drama” ~ especially someone else’s family drama!

7)  I am blessed to have been born into a family of a very diverse group of cultures.  My tribe considers Thanksgiving a day of mourning.  It is the annual reminder that Our ancestors showed kindness to save the lives of starving barbarians who returned the gifts they were given with death to Our people, Our forests, Our buffalo and eagles, with prejudice, lies, destruction, and thievery on every level.

8) Added November 24, 2016: I don’t want to receive tons of text messages from people I don’t know because someone sent out a group text and folks don’t know how to set their phones to reply only to sender instead of to everyone in that group!  And there’s always that annoying person who wants to call to find out who you are…  Fix this on iPhone and Android.

9)  I give thanks every day and don’t need one day to celebrate all the blessings that I have.

However, bah-humbug this may sound, I look forward to My day of football and pasta on that third Thursday of November!

Yet, softy-that-I-can-be, I always consider the person who has nothing to do for the “holiday” (but wishes they did) and sometimes, I invite people to come out and have a drink with Me to share some of that “togetherness” that is so highly commercialized to sell you things to buy for Christmas presents.  Fortunately, We “ain’t buying it” and We give thanks for having the time to get together for a little fun in Our hectic schedules!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

UPDATE: November 20, 2016

A selfish person attempted to make Me wrong for not celebrating Thanksgiving and insisted that she would call Me on that Thursday to wish Me a Happy Thanksgiving. I told her that the part of Me that is of Native American decent is insulted because saying that to Me is like saying, “Happy Holocaust Day” to a Jew.

As expected, she insisted that it wasn’t the same thing; ranted in a way that deemed her version of history held more value than anyone else’s truth; insisted that I was being too sensitive (that old trick that good-ol’-racists use when People of Color speak up); behaved as if she had the right to decide for Me how I should feel; and chose to be insulted (the other old trick that good-ol’-racists (even those who don’t know/believe they’re racists) use when People of Color speak up).  It was her 12-year old son who pointed out to her that no one has the right to tell anyone else what is or isn’t an atrocity to them, and that if she wants her culture to be respected, then We must all respect others’ cultures — whether We understand their feelings or not. Out of the mouths of babes… Isaiah 11:6, New King James Version (scripture edit 11/20/18)

Remember that.

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November 14, 2012

I was given an assignment in the 7th grade to find a poem to memorize and recite.  My wonderful Mother and I enjoyed reading through many poems in Our library at home and She found this one.  What We didn’t know at the time is that the assignment was for a NYCity-wide poetry competition.  I came in 2nd place with this entry – probably because the 1st place winner prefaced her recitation, “One Tin Soldier,” with mention that her brother was a Vietnam veteran, and the vast majority of the judges and entrants felt much less guilt about a poem about the horrors of a more recent war.   She was a classmate and We celebrated together while wondering why We won with poems about inhumanity and sorrow when other entries were poems about love, achievement, and greatness…  Even in the 7th grade, We were aware of how guilt motivates acknowledgement, recognition, and achievement.  Evidently, guilt is not a great enough motivator for positive change in how people treat each other.

Indian
by Rosemary and Stephen Vincent Benet

Michael Gray Eyes

Michael Gray Eyes

I don’t know who this Indian is,
A bow within his hand,
But he is hiding by a tree
And watching white men land,
They may be gods – – they may be fiends – –
They certainly look rum.
He wonders who on earth they are
And why on earth they’ve come.

He knows his streams are full of fish,
His forests full of deer,
And his tribe is the mighty tribe
That all the others fear.
— And, when the French or English land,
— The Spanish or the Dutch,
They’ll tell him they’re the mighty tribe
An no one else is much.

They’ll kill his deer and net his fish
And clear away his wood,
And frequently remark to him
They do it for his good.
They he will scalp and he will shoot
And he will burn and slay
And break the treaties he has made
– – And, children, so will they.

We won’t go into all of that
For it’s too long a story,
And some is brave and some is sad
And nearly all is gory.
But, just remember this about
Our ancestors so dear:
They didn’t find any empty land,
The Indians were here.

Benet, Rosemary and Stephen Vincent.
A Book of Americans. NY: Holt, 1961.


You Know What To Do: REVIEW!

PREPARE For My New Soirees!

 REMINDER:  My Events are fundraisers for My Charities

DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.

REALITY CHECK:

  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of Mss Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

If you haven’t seen it yet, watch this little video with My 10 Domina101™ Tips.  For more detailed info, READ HERE.


Currently on Ask Mss Didi*

No Regrets – How To

Tips on how to get over being your own worst enemy by focusing on what coulda-shoulda-woulda been.

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay AskMistressDidi.comcareful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

Enjoy a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


Join My MAILING LIST

If you have not already done so, PLEASE take a moment to join My Mailing List here. You can also subscribe by RSS feed — see sidebar.


ClassicFetish™ Resources

See articles at the bottom of this post.

Elevate Your Esteem In 2018!


Stimulations

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Ann Margret in a scene from Viva Las Vegas (also starring Elvis Presley) — this makes Me laugh!
I love how each of them is fully in the moment of commitment to their groove!


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It’s Been A While…

Events, News, Gifts, Contest & More!

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Quick News
New Events &
Private Members Club…

Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)

Really READ: How To Attend My Events

10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO

No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*


How Was Your Summer?

~ New Soirees & New Situations
~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ “No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi*
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


My Fetish Fabulous Summer!

I am making major changes to My Domain because CHANGE IS NECESSARY, especially now…  Speaking of change, VOTE BLUE.

Due to the many, many and increasing in numbers of good, Fetish folks being attacked and shut-down by pathetic manipulators who are allowed to go unpunished and can easily affect YOU, My Rules and Policies for My Events continue to attract the trust of even more and more respectable and responsible people for private adventures.

The reason I changed My party plans and disappeared for the summer is because I was invited to join another, Private Members Fetish Club and let someone else organize events for Me to enjoy!  It’s been fabulous having marvelous times in completely safe and confidential environments with new friends and old friends, too!

Doesn’t that sound wonderful?  A Private Members Fetish Club where you ARE safe — both physically and personally — and you know that you will associate with the type of Fetishists that you want to be with and whom you can trust?  More about that and how you may participate coming soon…

Soirees

Halloween marks the end of My Birthday Celebrations.  Once I recover, I will begin plans for some Fabulous Fetish Fun since I will spend more time in NYC until the end of the year.

And on the horizon is a major announcement!

More info in the coming issues of My Newsletters!


PREPARE For My New Soirees!

 REMINDER:  My Events are fundraisers for My Charities

DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.

REALITY CHECK:

  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of Mss Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

If you haven’t seen it yet, watch this little video with My 10 Domina101™ Tips.  For more detailed info, READ HERE.


AskMistressDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mss Didi*

No Regrets – How To

Tips on how to get over being your own worst enemy by focusing on what coulda-shoulda-woulda been.

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay AskMistressDidi.comcareful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

Enjoy a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


Join My MAILING LIST

If you have not already done so, PLEASE take a moment to join My Mailing List here. You can also subscribe by RSS feed — see sidebar.


ClassicFetish™ Resources

See articles at the bottom of this post.

Elevate Your Esteem In 2018!


Stimulations

more photos in My Gallery


see more photos

AskMistressDidi.com

EpicuresNYC Private Members Fetish Club

Enjoy Life!

Always MY Pleasure, Mss Didi*

Join My Mailing List

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Spring In My Step!

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Get Ready News!
New Twist on My New Events
Prep For NEW Soirees (I Mean It!)

Really READ: How To Attend My Events

Domina101™ Workshop Soiree LIVE
10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO

The Vetting of Undesirables

No Regrets ~ Ask Mss Didi*

New Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants


Something Different!

~ New Soirees & New Locales
~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ Domina101™ Workshop Soiree Live & In Person
~ The Vetting of My Domain
~ “No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi*
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


Well, it’s finally Spring and I’m ready for a multitude of flings!

Check out the slideshow below!

Let’s Get Right To It…

Most people have absolutely NO idea what My life is like.  Most folks these days fall into 2 categories: (i) the lust-ers who are busy fantasizing that My every day is full of BDSM and whatever their kink is and (ii) the h8ters who are wishing ill-will from their level of jealousy and mediocrity. Their focus is only on what they want from Me while offering absolutely nothing to Me… not even a little, vision of beauty.

So, I am extremely particular about with whom I want to Soiree — especially when I do all of the work and incur all of the expense to produce fabulous events.

I’ve made it quite clear that I do not want any trump supporters at any of My Events or anywhere near Me.  The same way the barbarians feel they have the right  to be racists, sexists, every-kind-of-ismists, I exercise My Rights to Maintain MY Domain MY Way — especially since MY Domain is not any kind of pretense of a democracy.

But, as We know, barbarians believe they have the right to invade, intrude, and acquire what is yours (they still call it “manifest destiny”) and take the credit for what you’ve created.  Yet, in true, punkazz fashion, they always whine and play victim when their sense of self-righteousness is offended.

So My last issue of My Newsletter was dedicated to Black History Month and as expected:

  • When they tell Me that I’m “not really Black”

    12% of My Mailing List unsubscribed — had I known it was that easy to get rid of barbarians, I would have dedicated a lot more to Blackness a lot sooner!

  • A few idiots actually emailed Me to say that I shouldn’t be so political because I might offend people…  But they have nothing to say about statues of slavers and confederate flags on state capitol buildings offending the descendants of slaves…
  • And a  few truly-idiotic people, while pretending to care for Me, told Me not to be so political because I’m not really Black — yes, they said that. The real horror is that this has happened to Me many, many times and they always “get offended” when I tell them how they’ve just offended Me.  I wrote about this phenomenon — CLICK IMAGE to peruse.
  • One of the main morons I never want to see again contacted Me to say he’s waiting for Me to write good newsletters again…  So, I left the last issue of My Newsletter up for 2 months.  And just before publishing this issue, I sent him a schedule of Women’s History Month events before I personally removed him from My Mailing List.

So, if you’re new here or if you are offended that I will continue to “be political” for My Rights, My history, and the rights of those who also deserve quality of life, you should unsubscribe right now.  From now on, I will continue to raise the level of education of Black History & Present and Women’s Herstory in My Newletters.  The crème de la crème who deserve to be in My Domain will rise to the top in appreciation.


New Event Adventures

 REMINDER:  My Events are fundraisers for My Charities

I want MORE new, fun subs and Divas to Play with this summer so let’s get things going! My next Event will be an experiment in a new venue situation.  I maintain that the best way to try something new is to have a party with it! It’s time for a:

  • Grand Audience SpeedDomming™ Soiree, an invitation only event with 1-to-1 interviews, hors d’oeuvres & mellow beverages, conversation, and perhaps, a bit of Play in a lovely, comfortable, private environment. The intimidation factor is alleviated by beauty, comfort, and amity; and a
  • Domina101™ Workshop Soiree with a how-to segment (see video below) and socializing!  It’s challenging to be a Woman and being a Domme can get quite lonesome with a lack of contemporaries wherever You frolick.  This Event is designed to gain a bit of perspective on Domain Maintenance and to meet other Dominas to develop supportive and fun associations — especially to Play with at Domina Play Dates!

Both Events will be held in Midtown NYC near all transportation because there should be minimal effort to one’s fun.

  • Strict Security protocols ALWAYS
  • READ How To Prepare For My Soirees below because if you don’t and you aggravate Me with stupidity when I’ve taken the time to clearly write and make information easily available, you’ll have only yourself to blame.

Before We get started, I’m giving YOU the chance to CHOOSE THE DATES THAT WORK FOR YOU to Soiree! HURRY! Party season is upon Us with graduations and weddings coming up…  Isn’t it lovely to have choices?  Isn’t it lovelier to have someone care about you in your Fetish Fun?

Take the Soiree Survey

  Click HERE for The Soiree Survey

MORE SOIREE DETAILS & DESCRIPTIONS


PREPARE For My New Soirees!

DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.

REALITY CHECK:

  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of Mss Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering.  So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics.  IF you want more detailed info, READ.


Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

  Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.

 Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!


Webcam Workshops

Coming Soon!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
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AskMistressDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mss Didi*

No Regrets – How To

Tips on how to get over being your own worst enemy by focusing on what coulda-shoulda-woulda been.

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay AskMistressDidi.comcareful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

Enjoy a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


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