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You Won't Like My Events If... |
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1)
You think that My Events are
open to everyone, the more-the merrier, or that I desire for
everyone to want to attend them.
NO.
I make it very clear that My Events are NOT for everyone and that
only those with the utmost respect and integrity for themselves, for
others, and for The Fetish Scene are welcome. I keep the number of
attendees at an intimate level to foster a real sense of Community
among people with beautiful energies. Creatures who think that to
withhold respect and common courtesy is a sign of
control/Dominance/self-worth are completely confused and need to
learn to become better beings elsewhere.
2)
You think that
because you attend, it’s all about you.
NO. It’s MY Event and you are
invited
into MY Domain. Invited guests are always on their best
behavior or they will be ejected, never to return. Respect and
manners are to be given at all times in order for you to receive
them. Again, "undesireables" will be ejected upon the first inkling
of bad behavior, never to return. I don’t care how much losers
whine to anyone who will entertain garbage; I mean it when I say
I
don’t want just anyone in My Domain
and I fiercely protect My Guests.
3)
You think that because you
paid admission that you are entitled to every- and anything.
NO. You pay admission to
offset My costs. Because I don’t enjoy partying in dark dives and
paying exorbitant prices for cheap wine and beer, I choose venues,
hors d’oeuvres, and beverages that are of fine quality, are
healthy, and that I actually enjoy. Unlike just about every other
event promoter I’ve encountered in The Scene,
I do not
produce events to make money.
Since I’m not a trust-fund-kid, I have a budget to adhere to in
order to share some of the delights of My Domain with others. My
goal is to create a good time with good people and (hopefully)
break-even with My expenses. I produce events so that:
a)
I create a milieu to
attract like-energies;
b)
I can meet people I’d
actually like to commune with;
c)
I can meet quality
Dominants and submissives rather than tolerate the many “dummes”
and “substandards”
that troll around
everywhere;
d)
I can create a safe haven
for people who have a sincere desire to learn and share with and
from the Fetish Elite; and
e)
I can enjoy the company of
people I already know and like.
Notice the key word in the above
sentences:
“I.”
I create the type of events that I wish were available for Me to
enjoy. If you attend My Events,
you are contributing
to your ability to enjoy the finer things that are standard in My
Domain.
4)
You want to
determine the Rules of Protocol.
NO.
Titles are used and
ClassicFetish™
etiquette is demanded of all who enter into My Domain. Since My
best friends address Me as
Mistress Didi,
so will you, and I will reciprocate in kind. Others are also to be
address by their titles, unless told otherwise by the individuals.
Ma’am, Mistress, Miss,
and
Sir are
to be used at all times.
Thank you,
please, and
excuse me
are also expected in conversations of all who attend. Courtesy is a
gift that is returned ten-fold. If any of this is a problem for you
or your owner, do not attend, which will be a Win-Win for Me no
matter how one looks at it.
5)
You think you know
everything about producing events and ridiculously dare to even
think to tell Me how I should produce Mine in MY Domain. Or
worse, you want to whine about what you want in My Domain.
NO. Produce your own events and, if they are not in a sleazoid
venue with a self-indulgent DJ blasting music so that I can’t even
hear Myself speak, I will check out what you offer. If it’s
not My thing, I have the grace not to disrespect your creation; I
just won’t be a frequent visitor.
I support you in creating what you desire and sincerely wish you
well in your endeavors.
That’s what Self-Love and Respect look like in practice; there’s no
need or reason for jealousy, avarice, pettiness, etc. from anyone
for anyone else. I understand that The Universe works so that when
one wins, We can all win, if We are available to prosperity
consciousness. It’s also called having class and good
upbringing.
6)
You think you
should or will be catered to.
NO.
I am a
Real Domme, not your mom. Again, an
invited
guest does not try to
be the center of attention, hog all the Play or the party
photographer, or dictate to My staff or guests. I am also not a “hoochie-with-a-whip”
in the service industry;
I’m in the “be served” business.
It serves Me and brings Me joy to produce events where cool people
enjoy themselves and each other.
7)
You lack social
skills. For example, although I have
event staff, clean up after yourself. That’s common courtesy and
respectful of other guests. Basic social graces are all that are
required to be a participant in any of My Events. Since there is an
epidemic of growing numbers of people who lack such skills, I have
taken the time to give yet another gift in the form of a
Free eBook:
How To Properly Present yourself To A
Mistress,
which is a primer in basic Scene etiquette that is a great resource
for Dominants and submissives alike.
8)
You think I’m
elitist.
YES, I am. And with good
reason. I’ve dedicated Myself to becoming a skilled, Fetish Artist
with many years of blood, sweat, and tears (which was a lot of fun
for Me and My Playmates) to
honestly walk My talk. I've cultivated My
style with grace and aplomb to become an expert in many techniques.
I am offended by all these “dummes”
and “substandards”
who dare to dictate to ME, and others of My caliber, on the
who-what-how things should be when they can barely even hold a
flogger to flail it. My Domain and My Events are for the
crème-de-la-crème of
The Fetish Lifestyle and for those who wish to contribute to and be
a part of Us.
9)
You think I’m a
bitch and you don’t understand the power.
YES, I am proud to be a REAL Dominant who is
Being In Total Control of Herself = My Domain.
The primary reason that I am Dominant is because I want things the
way I want them in My Domain (the same goes for just about every
other Dominant that I know and associate with). The truth is that
most people think
you’re
a bitch when they can’t have what they want in
your
Domain. These kinds of people are lazy and lack personal
responsibility for their own lives and want to invade yours. I
don’t allow this on any level.
I also do not care if people like Me
or what I create in My Domain. If you don’t like it, don’t
accept My gracious invitation to join Me in it. Simple.
It’s not your job to like
Me; it’s Mine. ~ Byron Katie
If any of the above holds true for you,
My Events are NOT for you. Life is too short to spend time on
things that do not fit in with your comfort zone and I support you
in enjoying what does. My Events are just a few of many
opportunities to be grateful for your freedom to choose. Please be
grateful for such freedom; not everyone has it.
You are responsible for the energy you bring. ~ Dr.
Jill Bolte Taylor
Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi* |
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