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Special Project Performer & Participant Interviews!
Summer Visiting Domina
Play Date Affair #1 on 6/29
NOW Interviewing Guests & Performers
for My Experiential Theater Project
How To Attend My Events
for Party Service Assistants
I’m So Excited!
~ Visiting Domina Play Soiree #1 June 29th
~ My Experiential Theater: Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews
~ Domina101™: “Developing Excellence” 6/27/17
~ Shoe Giveaway
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
Scene To Be Scene! My Experiential Theater Project
Are you ready for something wild and wonderful and NEW?
Exciting fun! I’m developing a special, performance art experience that involves respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities.
- Participation involves party perks (bubbly beverages included all night) and some participants may receive expense reimbursement.
- You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation.
- Strict Security protocols ALWAYS apply.
This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).
I’m currently interviewing safe, sane, consensual, respectful, and cool:
- Fabulous Skilled Fetishists who have fine-tuned their techniques
- Performers of a variety of types
- Voyeurs and Fetish-Fashionable Folks who are sociable
- Assistants to serve and/or sub
- Security to keep an eye out
Participants MUST be:
- Stylish and wear Fetish attire that fits. You ARE part of the evening’s delights; “Peacock,” which means, Rock your Beauty! Everyone has Beauty; bring it.
- Be respectful of staff, audience, each other, and understand and adhere to The Rules
- Be discrete and follow My instructions, whether you’re Dominant or submissive or whatever — there’s only one Leader and it’s Me
- Be able to interact with the audience, staff, and each other
- Civilized, cultured, have manners, and able to hold an intelligent conversation — no politics, religion, battle of the sexes
- Be cool and comfortable with an upscale (and often, famous) groups of people
- Play nice, be polite and be safe, sane, and consensual in all things
- Be able to hang out late on a school night (I recommend arranging to go in late to work the next day for day-job folks) — this is a once-in-a-lifetime type of experience for most
- Be able to appreciate that you’re being invited to participate in one of My Extravagant Events for free
For an idea of what I mean by “fabulous,” check out A Few of My Party Pics.
Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos. Read My Photo Guarantee.
Want to know more? Join in The Fun? APPLY HERE.
- I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain. See below.
Domina Play Soiree
June 29th 6-10pm, Midtown NYC
The first wave of Summer-fun, visiting, Diva Dominas are coming to town! And it’s time to Play in a Big Way!
My Events are catered, in a completely private (no walk-ins), clean, and comfortable, Midtown space with an elevator — and NO cameras anywhere. And, as always, to ensure that Quality Fetishists are in attendance, ALL ATTENDEES MUST submit a complete application. No one will be admitted to My Private Spaces without providing the photo(s) I require or by adhering to special preparations (as provided for in the Event Application Form) — end of discussion.
ALL applicants are carefully screened for participation. Do you realize that this means that I give the time to actually communicate with each and every attendee and potential attendee?
- I am ever generous: if you have budget considerations and/or would like to offer your service as Event Staff, be certain to read the details to be able to join My Soiree fun.
Specific Details are provided ONLY to screened applicants.
If you wish to join Us for this SPECIAL Event, please see details HERE.
In case you don’t know, I have teeny-tiny feet — I wear a size 4½ shoe. So, unless I’m spending insane amounts of money on shoes that are properly designed to fit, buying shoes is often a crap-shoot. I recently purchased a cute pair of Croc flips that do not fit Me comfortably.
So, if you or someone you know wears a (small) size 5 shoe, these BRAND NEW AND NEVER WORN Crocs Vibrant Party Pink Isabella Flip Sandals are yours! You can buy Me a glass of bubbly when you meet Me in Midtown NYC to pick them up. Don’t worry; We can do Happy Hour! Contact Me here.
- This may be a good introduction to be invited to one of My Soirees!
Next Session 6/27/17 – 7:45-9:45: Developing Excellence
Rule #1: Don’t be a desperate Domme. If I hear one more person whine about how there are no good subs (and there are far too many substandards whining about how they can’t find a “good Domme”)… Let’s get down to the bottom of the problem, shall We?
- Beautiful Fetish, Excellence & Ego
- The Difference Between Fetish & Kink
- Permission or Forgiveness?
- Why you Don’t & Won’t Have What you Want and
- Fakers-Shakers-Takers-Noise Makers
The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!
Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants
NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.
I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.
Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).
I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE
Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!
REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x
Why Take These Webcam Workshops?
Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
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This gift is what I offer to participants of My Photo Soirees to prepare and create an excellent experience to gain the benefit of more usable photos from the shoot.
There are links to resources about model releases that you should definitely review.
PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.
My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.
I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.
The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!
I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!
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- Complimentary Domina101™ Lesson
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