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Happy Start-Taking-Off-
Your-Clothes Season!
Upcoming Domina Play Soiree
Join Me for “Mistress Fit” Excursions
Staff, Attendant & Performer
Interviews for My New Venture
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants

Get Ready To Get Naked!

~ Domina Play Soiree May 18th (tentative – see below)
~ Join Me for “Mistress Fit” Excursions
~ My New Venture: Staff, Attendant & Performer Interviews
~ Domina101™: “Establishing Your Domain Rules” 4/24/17
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

Prepare to Be Seen In The Scene

April & May

From now through May, I invite the adventurous to join Me to check out a few fitness options that I have either never heard of, have never tried, and/or are supposed to be all the rage.

VERY IMPORTANT: NO JUDGMENT. Fitness is about Self-Love and I have NO tolerance for non-supportive attitudes towards anyone who is taking steps for their well-being. If it was easy, everyone would be fit.

Join Me for a class and a cocktail or tea after! Gentlemen welcome, too!

I highly recommend Yoga For Dummies presented by Sara Ivanhoe — and catch it while it’s free now! Sara gives the most comprehensive, how-to instruction that I’ve seen and this is the best place to prepare your body for any type of sports and fitness.

More of My recommendations are listed in the previous issue of My Newsletter — check them out!

Curious as to why I am sharing fitness tips and personal outings with Me? I’m preparing for a “Beautiful Bodies Soiree” and, while Beauty comes in all sizes, shapes, and colors, this private-hands-on event will celebrate fitness in all its fabulous presentations! GET READY!

Domina Play Soiree

May 18th (tentative) 6-10pm, Midtown NYC

This event date is tentative because I’m awaiting confirmation on the exact dates that some very, special Dominas will visit NYC! Alternate dates: May 16 or May 17.

I create the kinds of events in the kinds of environments with the kinds of Quality Fetishists who compliment My Energies. I always present events with class, grace, and excellence.

My Events are catered, in a completely-private (no walk-ins), clean, and comfortable, Midtown space with an elevator — and NO cameras anywhere. And, as always, to ensure that Quality Fetishists are in attendance, ALL ATTENDEES MUST submit a complete application. No one will be admitted to My Private Spaces without providing the photo(s) I require or by adhering to special preparations (as provided for in the Event Application Form) — end of discussion.

See My Photo Policy Guarantee For Your Privacy.
Definitely read How To Attend My Events.

ALL applicants are carefully screened for participation. Do you realize that this means that I give the time to actually communicate with each and every attendee and potential attendee?

I am ever generous: if you have budget considerations and/or would like to offer your service as Event Staff, be certain to read the details to be able to join My Soiree fun.

Specific Details are provided ONLY to screened applicants.

If you wish to join Us for this SPECIAL Event, please see details HERE.

Domina101™ Online Lecture and Q&A

Next Session 4/26/17 – 7:45-9:45: Establishing Your Domain Rules

The question is: Who’s in charge? I’m constantly asked HOW to define, relay, and implement what YOU want in YOUR Domain. It seems like it should be easier than it is, but dealing with personalities, agendas, and manipulation tactics requires quite a bit of navigation. The trick is to know HOW to navigate through the fantasies to maintain Your Reality the way You want it!

Suggested Reading: Manipulation Tactics: Who’s Topping You? and Fakers-Shakers-Takers-Noise Makers

The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I will interview staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture very soon… Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

Soiree Assistants & submissives (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!

Webcam Workshops

Coming Soon!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

Currently on Ask Mss Didi*

My Photo Shoot Preparation Techniques

This gift is what I offer to participants of My Photo Soirees to prepare and create an excellent experience to gain the benefit of more usable photos from the shoot.

There are links to resources about model releases that you should definitely review.

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.

Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely check it out!