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Education News!
Black History Month:
What Do/Don’t You Know?

Choose  The Next Soirees!
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Experience ON TOUR!

10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted for Party Service Assistants


Education Is Key

~ Know YOUR History
~ Poll Results!
~ Choose The Next Soirees
~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


Black History IS YOUR History

This newsletter is published a little late because I had to take some time to clear My head, collect My thoughts and be certain that I express Myself with the eloquence and integrity that makes Me proud to be Me.  The growing wave of racism, sexism, creepism requires those of Us who are conscious and conscientious to be very mindful of Who We Are and How We Want To Be.

And so… The latest offensive stupidity comes from a moron requesting MY HELP FOR FREE and simultaneously suggesting that My How-To’s Inspired By The Kwanzaa Tradition “can turn some people off because it’s too ethnic.”  I kid you not; those are his exact words.  This creature, along with the folks who tell Me to My beautiful, brown face that I’m “not ‘really’ Black,” are why the NEED for greater education about TRUTH exists to expand not only everyone’s cultural identity but intelligence.  I referred that trumpass to My Latest Rules for MY DOMAIN.

  • So that it’s totally clear that American (and amerikkkan) history and present is BUILT upon the achievements and sacrifices of Black America despite the heinousness of slavery, Jim Crow, and trumpasses, this issue of My Newsletter is devoted to Black History month with facts to broaden your consciousness and clarity. 

The more you know about YOUR history, the better you are in your present and future.  AND maybe more people won’t say something racist and offensive from a place of total ignorance because YOU will have knowledge to share and be proud of, too.  Each one teach one.

See Stimulations below.

If anyone thinks that’s too ethnic, handle your issues here


Poll Results

The results are in! I am delighted to have so many knowledgeable readers!  The correct answer is sounds — do you now what they are and how to use them?  Check out My Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop and if there’s enough interest, I will create a special event.

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Choose The Next Soirees

Due to the amount of time it will take to repair hurricane damage to My Fabulous Fetish Fun Zones, I am spending more time in NYC.  So, that I don’t get bored, I have to create events to enjoy being a Fabulous Fetishist — which benefits you!

I GIVE YOU what you need to step up to BetterFetish™ and prepare to take part in superior  experiences to the “pimp-n-ho parties.”    All you need to do is be real and walk your talk.  READ BELOW and really follow the links.

Take the Soiree Survey

Isn’t it lovely to have choices?  Isn’t it lovelier to have someone care about you in your Fetish Fun?

Let Me know what type of Soirees you’re interested in attending and — here’s the best part — when you’re available so that I can make the magic happen!

  Click HERE for The Soiree Survey

MORE SOIREE DETAILS & DESCRIPTIONS

PREPARE For My New Soirees!

It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.

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  FREE Preparation Tools HERE

~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

  •  If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

More resources below.

Domina Delights!

©The Mistress Didi* ~ PartyDomme.comAs always, I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — IF I announce info anywhere else at all.

Coming soon:


My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!

OF COURSE, I keep all details confidential.  But I will say that the Fab Fetishists who participated in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project in the sun-sea-sand had a blast!  I’m looking forward to more travels coming soon.  So, don’t miss your opportunity to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!  DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.

 Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you!  Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!


10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering.  So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics.  IF you want more detailed info, READ.


Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. 

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

MORE INFO


Webcam Workshops

Coming Soon!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info on How YOU Benefit…
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AskMistressDidi.comPAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


Join My MAILING LIST

If you have not already done so, PLEASE take a moment to join My Mailing List here. You can also subscribe by RSS feed — see sidebar.


ClassicFetish™ Resources

See articles at the bottom of this post.

Elevate Your Esteem In 2018!


Stimulations

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Idris Elba – Black History didn’t start withh slavery

Teacher Strategies: With over 10,000 pages of information BlackPast.org is the single largest free and unrestricted resource on African American and African history on the Internet today. The articles and outlines below are suggestions and guides provided by teachers to help other instructors effectively utilize this vast resource. Click on to any of the major headings, Lessons, Teachers Thinking About Topics, or Fun Stuff, or their subheadings to be taken to pages that describe in detail the outlines and suggestions.

While Black Women were denied participation in Miss America Pageants, the Miss Black America organization was sued for racial discrimination… Miss Black America Pageant Song by Curtis Mayfield

Nichelle Nichols

Whoopi Goldberg

Julia was an American sitcom notable for being one of the first weekly series to depict an African American woman in a non-stereotypical role. Previous television series featured African American lead characters, but the characters were usually servants. The show starred actress and singer Diahann Carroll, and ran for 86 episodes on NBC from September 17, 1968 to March 23, 1971. Also important to note is that inter-racial best-friendship of Julia’s son and her neighbors’.

A FEW Inventions by Black Americans

The 1968 Olympics Black Power Salute: African American athletes Tommie Smith and John Carlos raise their fists in a gesture of solidarity at the 1968 Olympic games. Australian Silver medalist Peter Norman wore an Olympic Project for Human Rights badge in support of their protest and returned home to Australia a pariah, suffering unofficial sanction and ridicule as the Black Power salute’s forgotten man. He never ran in the Olympics again. Both Americans were expelled from the Olympic games FOR LIFE as a result. CLICK THE IMAGE FOR ARTICLE.

Yasuke, the only Black Samurai ever recorded in written history

“They’ve always said that I’m anti-white. I’m for anybody who’s for freedom. I’m for anybody who’s for justice. I’m for anybody who’s for equality. I’m not for anybody who tells me to sit around and wait for mine.” – Malcolm X

William Lewis Moore, a white postal worker from Maryland who walked to Mississippi to deliver a letter against segregation. Murdered 5 days before his birthday in 1963.

32 of the 400 Freedom Riders. From May until November 1961, more than 400 black and white Americans risked their lives—and many endured savage beatings and imprisonment—for simply traveling together on buses and trains as they journeyed through the Deep South. Deliberately violating Jim Crow laws in order to test and challenge a segregated interstate travel system, the Freedom Riders met with bitter racism and mob violence along the way, sorely testing their belief in nonviolent activism. An excellent movie features testimony from a fascinating cast of central characters: the Riders themselves, state and federal government officials, and journalists who witnessed the Rides firsthand. The two-hour documentary is based on Raymond Arsenault’s book Freedom Riders: 1961 and the Struggle for Racial Justice. Watch the Freedom Riders movie here.

Writer, activist and educator Dr. Angela Davis is best known as a radical African-American educator and activist for civil rights and other social issues. She knew about racial prejudice from her experiences with discrimination growing up in Alabama. Read more…

Bobby Seale is an African-American political activist and co-founder and national chairman of the Black Panther Party. While working at a War on Poverty program, he and co-founder, Huey P. Newton, wrote a ten-point program that outlined the outlook and goals of the BPP. The Ten-Point program demanded that blacks have the “power to determine the destiny of our Black Community.” Control of their own community would allow blacks to gain “land, bread, housing, education, clothing, justice and peace.”



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Quick News!
New Year’s Fitness: Hail or Fail?
My ClassicFetish™ Theater
Experience ON TOUR!

Prep For NEW Soirees!
10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted for Party Service Assistants


Already Rockin’ 2018!

~ My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Tour Date #1!
   & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz

~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ Keep Those Resolutions With My Fitness Tips
~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


Did you notice…?

In My photo for the last issue of My Newsletter, I played a game with My fellow Members of EpicuresNYC and those who are in “Our Circle.”  Let’s see how sharp you are — what am I holding?  And do you know how to use it?  I feel a Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop coming on…

Let’s have some more fun with this ~ take the poll:


How’s Your New Year’s Resolution To Get Fit Going…?

Right about now, most people realize that they set themselves up to fail with ridiculous and torturous (not in a fun way) goals to get fit and healthy.  Goddess that I am, once again I share with you intelligent fitness options so that you, too, can walk your talk!


My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!

As I mentioned in My previous Newsletter, My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road!  A few, Fab Fetishists who applied and participated in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project will accompany Me to indulge in the sun-sea-sand for a Performance Weekend towards the end of the month!

In anticipation of more traveling, ClassicFetish™ Fun, I am holding new interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities!  If you missed it before, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!  DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.

 Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you!  Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!


PREPARE For My New Soirees!

It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.

REALITY CHECK:

  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of The Mistress Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

Domina Delights!

©The Mistress Didi* ~ PartyDomme.comSince I am traveling with My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project at the end of the month, the Divas & Our Admirers Meet & Greet will be rescheduled to a tentative date of February 7th.  I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — if I announce info anywhere else at all.

As I’ve said, I’m bored with hearing the same-ol’ conversation about how folks can’t seem to find good subs or Dominants and I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is. I am going to GIVE YOU what you need to prepare to take part in different experiences from the “pimp-parties” and step up to BetterFetish™.   All you need to do is be real and walk your talk.  See Resources above and below.©The Mistress Didi* ~ PartyDomme.com

Coming soon:


10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering.  So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics.  IF you want more detailed info, READ.


Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

  Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.

 Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!


Webcam Workshops

Coming in 2018!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
©The Mistress Didi* ~ PartyDomme.com
Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.


AskMistressDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mistress Didi*

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

AskMistressDidi.comPAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


Join My MAILING LIST

If you have not already done so, PLEASE take a moment to join My Mailing List here. You can also subscribe by RSS feed — see sidebar.


ClassicFetish™ Resources

See articles at the bottom of this post.

Make Integrity Your Theme for 2017!


Stimulations

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Let’s address that Black Widow IS a super-shero
who doesn’t use any gadgets at all… just saying!


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Domina Delights Events!
Thank You, Donors To My Birthday Charity Fundraiser!
My ClassicFetish™ Theater
Experience TOUR!

REVISIT Holiday Stress Management Tools
10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted
for Party Service Assistants


Welcome 2018!

Wishing you a Happy, Healthy and Consciousness Aware New Year!

~ New Year, New Soirees!
~ Thanks & Still Donate to My Birthday Charity Fundraiser

~
 TOURING Plans ~ My Experiential Theater & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz

~ READ (AGAIN): Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”
~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations


The hectic season is upon Us…

With an obviously, drunk-ass president being promoted in the media as having “health concerns” and the usual, false accusations of brown-skinned and/or Muslim people as in the Grand Central Station situation (see security video), I STRONGLY encourage you to read and re-read Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering” below.  You will be grateful that you did — and so will those who share your environment!

A Special Thank You

Many Blessings upon the donors for My 2017 Birthday Campaign Fundraisers.  And a very special thank you to the anonymous donor (public fundraising page)! Please feel free to contact Me so that I may thank you properly!

There is still time for YOU to make a donation and help build clean water wells for some of the MILLIONS of people who do not have access to clean water — no amount is too small!  Please Donate to My 2017 Birthday Campaign.  Every amount counts and makes a difference.


New Year, New Soirees!

Domina Delights!

Well, those hurricanes are the reason that I will be in NYC a lot more often than I wanted to be this winter. So, since I must endure the chill, as always I make the best of things and I am planning ClassicFetish™ Thrills for 2018! GET EXCITED!

I’m bored with hearing the same-ol’ conversation about how folks can’t seem to find good subs or Dominants and I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is. I am going to GIVE YOU what you need to prepare to take part in different experiences from the “pimp-parties” and step up to BetterFetish™.   All you need to do is be real and walk your talk.  

If you’re gong to make New Year’s Resolutions, resolve to BE BETTER and have BetterFetish™!

On My Mind to create:

Stay tuned…


UPDATE: My Experiential Theater Project Preparing For Tour

My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road! While I’m doing hurricane clean-up, I intend to continue interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities!  So, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!

  • Those chosen for travel MUST have a valid passport.  Expenses will be paid (excluding departure fees and your travel to/from Our transports) and all arrangements will be finalized in writing with participants prior to departures.
  • You MUST meet with Me in person before being considered for participation — My treat. Details sent to applicants.
  • AS ALWAYS, follow the carefully-written instructions I have taken the time to write to make sure that We proceed correctly from the very beginning.
  • Only cool & respectful, Fab Fetish Folks, I really mean it — you have to know how to receive and appreciate a GIFT.  There are NO other events with the level of upscale excellence that I’m sharing — are you worthy of this Gift?

 For an idea of what I mean by “fabulous,” check out A Few of My Party Pics.

  • property of The Mistress Didi ~ all rights reservedAnd speaking of knowing how to receive a gift, I strongly recommend that you indulge in the quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike:

How To Present yourself To A Mistress

Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

Along with the Fabulous Fetishists I’ve known for years, this year’s Birthday Celebrations are going to be some of My Best Events EVER!


GET The Details: My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Soirees

 Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you!  Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!©The Mistress Didi* ~ PartyDomme.com all rights reserved

This Project is a public experience in an extremely private and exclusive environment(s).

AGAIN, YOU MUST FOLLOW ALL OF MY INSTRUCTIONS if you wish to participate in MY GIFT TO YOU IN MY DOMAIN.

 Be advised that under NO circumstances will your application be considered without photos.  Read My Photo Guarantee.

 GET The Details

  • I continue to interview new folks for regular and “visiting” positions in My Domain.  See below.

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering.  So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics.  IF you want more detailed info, READ.


Tools To Manage Psycho-Induced Stress & “Fear-Mongering”

While I really do My best to refrain from political commentary, the antics of the thieving-barbarian-in-chief are enhancing the stress factor all around.  You cannot help but notice the intense rise in insidious killings of Americans by Americans on American soil being repeated and repeated and repeated in the ghoul-feeding-frenzy-media (and NOT the Halloween-fun kind).

We are under attack by a non-stop, barrage of negativity on Our senses and sensibilities.  So, before anyone else pops a gasket, and so that We can exercise SELF-CONTROL and BE examples of the BEST rather than the worst of Americans, here are FREE Tools to strengthen your clarity and calm.

Chill Out Training Technique: The Tapping Solution
I swear by this technique for Myself and it totally works for Me and everyone who chooses to work it. It is a physiological-neurolinguistic technique that you can learn in less than 4 minutes (see video) to instantly gain and maintain control of your emotional states. Try it for yourself!  You’ll be amazed!

Subscribe To Daily GOOD NEWS Reports.  I highly recommend:

  • Happify is the single destination for effective, evidence-based solutions for better emotional health and wellbeing in the 21st century. Happify brings you effective tools and programs to help you take control of your feelings and thoughts with proven techniques developed by leading scientists and experts who’ve been studying evidence-based interventions in the fields of positive psychology, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral therapy for decades.
  • Daily Good. The world is full of everyday heroes and true stories of transformation. DailyGood aims to shine a light on these stories and in doing so to change the nature of our conversations. If it can spread a few smiles along the way it’s purpose is served. Readers receive a news story, an inspiring quote, and a suggested action that each person can take to make a difference in their own lives and the world around them. I look forward to receiving these emails!
  • 2 of My favorite sources for good news reports are the Good News Network which has been inspiring people to be more optimistic with positive news from all over the world for more than 20 years, and Sunny Skyz which has only positive, uplifting and inspiring news stories from around the world.
  • Believe it or not, several, major news organizations actually have a “good news” section.  Some offerings come from The Huffington Post, MSN, Today, and Fox News… but there’s a really good probability that it’s fake news!

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New Venture — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

  Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.

 Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!


Webcam Workshops

Coming in 2018!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

PartyDomme.comBe certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.


AskMistressDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mistress Didi*

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

AskMistressDidi.comPAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.


Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


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