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How Was Your Summer?

~ New Soirees & New Situations
~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ “No Regrets: How To” ~ Ask Mss Didi*
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

My Fetish Fabulous Summer!

I am making major changes to My Domain because CHANGE IS NECESSARY, especially now…  Speaking of change, VOTE BLUE.

Due to the many, many and increasing in numbers of good, Fetish folks being attacked and shut-down by pathetic manipulators who are allowed to go unpunished and can easily affect YOU, My Rules and Policies for My Events continue to attract the trust of even more and more respectable and responsible people for private adventures.

The reason I changed My party plans and disappeared for the summer is because I was invited to join another, Private Members Fetish Club and let someone else organize events for Me to enjoy!  It’s been fabulous having marvelous times in completely safe and confidential environments with new friends and old friends, too!

Doesn’t that sound wonderful?  A Private Members Fetish Club where you ARE safe — both physically and personally — and you know that you will associate with the type of Fetishists that you want to be with and whom you can trust?  More about that and how you may participate coming soon…


Halloween marks the end of My Birthday Celebrations.  Once I recover, I will begin plans for some Fabulous Fetish Fun since I will spend more time in NYC until the end of the year.

And on the horizon is a major announcement!

More info in the coming issues of My Newsletters!

PREPARE For My New Soirees!

 REMINDER:  My Events are fundraisers for My Charities

DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.


  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of Mss Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

If you haven’t seen it yet, watch this little video with My 10 Domina101™ Tips.  For more detailed info, READ HERE.

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No Regrets – How To

Tips on how to get over being your own worst enemy by focusing on what coulda-shoulda-woulda been.

AskMssDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay AskMssDidi.comcareful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

Enjoy a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.

Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


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