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Grand Audience “Speed Domming™” 10/8 & 10/22!

50 Shades of Foolishness & Fetish Safety
Webcam Workshop 9/29

~ submissive CONTEST! Enter NOW!
~~> Earn an All-Expenses Paid Trip to Paradise
~~> Serve at the Grand Opening Event December 4-6
~ Grand Audience Soirees Return 10/8 & 10/22
~~~> Mixed Dominant/submissive Interviews
~ 50 Shades of Foolishness Webcam Workshop

~~~>CHOOSE Dates/Times of Other Webcam Workshops
~ Domina101™ Mentoring Groups
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~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
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2 Grand Audience “Speed Domming™” Soirees in Midtown Manhattan!

For serious Dominants and submissives who are interested in meeting a variety of potential matches

Mixed Dominants & female submissives 10/8, 6-10pm $25

Mixed Dominants & mixed submissives 10/22, 6-10pm $25

Interviews, Chef-Catered Hors d’oevres & Bubbly Beverages Included

©Mss Didi* ~ PartyDomme.com all rights reservedDue to the high-profile situations of some of Our Club Members, We have extremely STRICT Invitation Rules that are for everyone’s safety and protection from creepazoids. 

Think of speed-dating, but for Quality Dominants and subs to meet en masse with class! I call it, “Speed-Domming™!”

By invitation only, enjoy an event with 1-to-1 interviews, hors d’oeuvres & mellow beverages, conversation, and perhaps, a bit of Play in a lovely, comfortable, private environment.

The intimidation factor is alleviated by beauty, comfort, and amity.

Grand Audience is designed for a few, Elite Dominants to gather in an intimate, clean, beautiful, private salon to interview lucky submissives for REAL service. After the interviews, the fun will ensue!

By Application Only.

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10/8 Dominantsall positions filled

10/22 Dominantsall positions filled

10/8 genetically female submissives

10/22 submissives


submissive CONTEST

PartyDomme.comIn preparation for the Grand Opening of Epicures Paradise Private Members Fetish Club, We are interviewing submissives to earn an all-expenses paid trip to serve at The Event.

This is a very rare opportunity for one-to-one, expert training by Mss Didi* and EpicuresNYC Members for excellent service and Reward Play. Service at select upcoming events is required and the submissives who offer the best service will accompany Us for a weekend in a tropical paradise in early November!

Applicants must be:

  • trainable in proper table and party service
  • able to follow instructions
  • able to make intelligent decisions
  • obedient and know your place
  • well-groomed and pleasantly presentable
  • well-mannered and have social graces (including proper table manners)
  • drug, drama, and disease-free

Applicants are required to answer all questions and provide a headshot and full-body photo in the APPLICATION FORM.

  • WARNING: Use current photos.
  • We have NO interests in SAMs, brats, or anything immature.

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Webcam Workshops

right-arrowREMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x


50 Shades of Foolishness & Fetish Safety!

Tuesday, September 29th 7:45-9:45pm NYC Time

Special Opportunity: Choose a Webcam Workshop & Time that works for you!

50 Shades of Foolishness

Learn what you need to combat the dangerous stupidity of “50 Shades-ing.” Already there have been crackdowns on Our events and re-zoning of communities where We rendezvous. There have been a lot of other annoyances and infringements on Our liberties. Now that an entirely different strata of people have flocked to be easily, thoughtlessly influenced, common sense is thrown under the bus and the law is NOT on your side. This Workshop is the What To Do WHEN… Don’t be sorry, be prepared.

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How You Benefit from My Workshops

With the inundation of attacks on Our Scene and Lifestyles from the money-mongering-pimp-mentality-exploiters, the “spawn of stink-kink” blemishing The Scene, and anti-social websites attracting more undesirables, there is less that makes you feel, “Ahhhhh” and more “ugh-yuck!”

Do you know about the about the 3 types of Fetish folks: fronters, punters, and Artists? Knowing the difference can literally save your life.

Even IF you REALLY DO have what you want, give yourself the opportunity to acquire new perspectives to learn what Y/you need to know to make your fantasies Fetish Realities.

And if you don’t have what you REALLY want, this is your opportunity to get it.

All Webcam Workshops are $25, 2 hours, and include a lecture and Q&A. Privacy assured from checkout and throughout each event.

Make it easy on yourself. What do you have to lose — really think about that? And you’ll contribute to My Charities while gifting yourself.

NOTE: if you’re having a ca$h-flow problem, contact Me with your useful skills and talents (NOT kinks).

Read more about How You Benefit…

~~~> Workshops for YOUR Private Group Available

~~~> Special Opportunity: Choose a Webcam Workshop & Time that works for you!


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Permission or Forgiveness?Permission or Forgiveness? is useful to both Dominants and submissives for better communication and inter-personal synchronization. This article explores a key element in Domain Maintenance style for the effectiveness of submissive training and acclimation. Do you know which type of person you are? Knowing this is the key to developing Trust in all areas of your life.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

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