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Quick News!
New Year’s Fitness: Hail or Fail?
My ClassicFetish™ Theater
Experience ON TOUR!

Prep For NEW Soirees!
10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
How To Attend My Events
Applications Accepted for Party Service Assistants

Already Rockin’ 2018!

~ My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Tour Date #1!
   & More Staff, Participant & Performer Interviews & FUN Quiz

~ Seriously, PREPARE for My New Soirees
(idiot-free zone)!
~ Keep Those Resolutions With My Fitness Tips
~ 10 Domina101™ Tips VIDEO
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

Did you notice…?

In My photo for the last issue of My Newsletter, I played a game with My fellow Members of EpicuresNYC and those who are in “Our Circle.”  Let’s see how sharp you are — what am I holding?  And do you know how to use it?  I feel a Play Nice With Your Toys Workshop coming on…

Let’s have some more fun with this ~ take the poll:

How’s Your New Year’s Resolution To Get Fit Going…?

Right about now, most people realize that they set themselves up to fail with ridiculous and torturous (not in a fun way) goals to get fit and healthy.  Goddess that I am, once again I share with you intelligent fitness options so that you, too, can walk your talk!

My Experiential Theater Project ON TOUR!

As I mentioned in My previous Newsletter, My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project has been so much fun that I’ve received requests to take it on the road!  A few, Fab Fetishists who applied and participated in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project will accompany Me to indulge in the sun-sea-sand for a Performance Weekend towards the end of the month!

In anticipation of more traveling, ClassicFetish™ Fun, I am holding new interviews for respectful Fetish Players, performers with Fetish Skills, and voyeurs who demonstrate safety in activities!  If you missed it before, NOW IS YOUR CHANCE to get on board and cruise (or fly) to the sun-sea-sand for a weekend as part of the festivities!  DETAILS AND APPLY HERE.

 Take the Quiz to determine what type of participation will be the most fun for you!  Have FUN with this 2-minute quiz to find your best role in My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Events!

PREPARE For My New Soirees!

It is imperative that you DO THE MINIMAL AMOUNT OF WORK required to be able to attend My Soirees.  I take the time and utilize My valuable energies and skills to create EXCELLENCE and I will not permit anything or anyone with less than excellent intentions to attend any of MY Creations.


  • I create My Events for what I like and want.  I invite worthy people to attend what I create. In other words, it’s not all about you. IF you want your fetishes addressed, you can contact Me to discuss engaging My Event Design skills to create the fun to your specifications.
  • WORTHY people are well-mannered; have social skills; follow MY Rules for MY Events; and get invited to future fabulousness.  Even if you are all of these, it is always good to check out the wonderful resources I generously provide to ensure that there are no misunderstandings:

property of Mss Didi ~ all rights reserved~> My quick read that benefits both Dominants and submissives alike: How To Present yourself To A Mistress.  Remember: the investment you make in your Fetish Education is directly proportionate to the quality of your fetish experience.

~> Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip are designed to ensure that you make a good impression from the very beginning. And remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING. 

~> And I didn’t forget about You, Dominants ~ Female and male:  My 10 Domina101™ Tips (see video below) will assist You in releasing the frustration that comes from the submissive vs. substandard irritations to clearly recognize the true value of the submission being presented (or more quickly see when it is not…)

  • I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

Domina Delights!

©Mss Didi* ~ PartyDomme.comSince I am traveling with My ClassicFetish™ Experiential Theater Project at the end of the month, the Divas & Our Admirers Meet & Greet will be rescheduled to a tentative date of February 7th.  I will make announcements to My Mailing List before announcing elsewhere — if I announce info anywhere else at all.

As I’ve said, I’m bored with hearing the same-ol’ conversation about how folks can’t seem to find good subs or Dominants and I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is. I am going to GIVE YOU what you need to prepare to take part in different experiences from the “pimp-parties” and step up to BetterFetish™.   All you need to do is be real and walk your talk.  See Resources above and below.©Mss Didi* ~ PartyDomme.com

Coming soon:

10 Domina101™ Tips Video

I receive numerous requests for answers that I’ve already written and most of those answers are presented in My 10 Domina101™ Tips offering.  So, [snark alert!] since too many folks operate with the attention span of gnats and reading more than 140 characters seems to be an issue, here’s a little video that outlines the basics.  IF you want more detailed info, READ.

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

NOTE: I am NOW interviewing staff, assistants, and performers for My New and Travel Ventures — CLICK HERE to apply! Performers, please prepare a short video (or detailed photo montage) of your performance to show Me. Staff, please prepare check-able references. All others, see below.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, “whatevers” are encouraged to apply as long as you can respectfully pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of the primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

  Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE. (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel.

 Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!

Webcam Workshops

Coming in 2018!

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMistressDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…
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Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

AskMistressDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mss Didi*

AskMistressDidi.comWhat’s In Your Play Bag? 

Tips and Tools to include in your Play Bag for the safest and most excellent Play!

AskMistressDidi.comPAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMistressDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMistressDidi.com.

Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely, check it out!


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ClassicFetish™ Resources

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Make Integrity Your Theme for 2017!


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