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Catching Up Issue
Domina Meet & Greet
How To Attend My Events

Applications Accepted
for NEW Party Service Assistants

Auhhhhhhgust!

~ REVIEW FOR SEPTEMBER
>> ~ How Event Attendance Works
>> ~ Soiree Attendance Contributions
~ The Domina Meet & Greet: Do You Have Domina Friends?
~ READ NOW: PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip
~ Domina101™: “No Limits“
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

I gave Myself some chill time…

Short Version: Met a fabulous hotelier and invited him to The Island; he made Us an offer too good to refuse; sold The Island; packed up and out in 25 days; dealt with the usual-people-trippin’-and-slippin’ when major moves are involved & got the move done on time; oh, yea — My websites were interrupted by web-host-incompetence and down for weeks…; recuperated in a Fab Zone with Favorite Friends and watched the excellence and gorgeous bodies in motion of The Rio 2016 Olympics; cruising! I’m going to continue to enjoy the end of the season with some frolicking fun!

Did your eyes just do a double-take as you skimmed over the word, frolicking? Heh, heh…

So, now that August is almost over, here’s what to do to get ready for a Savory September!

Review:

How To Attend My Events – read everything – so that you don’t set yourself up for disappointment and, even more importantly, so that you don’t annoy Me. First impressions are lasting and once you show Me that you don’t care to respect the work and time that I put into creating Excellence in My Domain by following instructions the first time, you won’t usually get a second chance… That goes for Dominants as well as for submissives.

Soiree Attendance Contributions. UNDERSTAND: My current Soirees are even more private, elegant, and discrete than what I’ve made available to the discerning public in the past. As you should know by now, I do NOT make money from My Events and all proceeds go to My Charities. However, for small Soirees, participants contribute to costs for the Event. I don’t hold My Events in venues with surveillance cameras… If you want Quality, you must be willing to invest in it. Read more….

Apply For Upcoming Events! Let’s get a jump on applications and interviews so that everyone thinks that I am going to disrupt My schedule to accommodate their last minute desires to attend My Events. Apply today and, maybe, join Me at one of NYC’s magnificent, Summer concerts or plays! Please pay close attention to What’s Available & Not Available and How Event Attendance Works.

Up Next

The Domina Meet & Greet

TBA ~ By Invitation Only, Midtown NYC

Designed to make good-Domme-friends to associate with! It’s one thing to have folks to Play with, but it’s another thing to have Fetish Friends who actually share your interests. And, We all know how tedious it is to have Your guard up all of the time around the creepazoids. So, I’m playing with the idea of having a slightly-non-fetish gathering for Dommes to meet for a cocktail and conversation to build nurturing relationships.

Dominas ONLY.

Please CLICK HERE for Your Special Domina Invitation

Domina Play Soirees

Returns in September

As always, I will announce new Event Dates to My Mailing List FIRST. The upcoming Domina Play Soirees (see description HERE) are for small groups of Dominas with 1 to 3 submissive attendants. And as always, Events are conveniently located in Midtown Manhattan and ALL applicants are carefully screened for participation. Do you realize that this means that I give the time to actually communicate with each and every attendee and potential attendee?

The ONLY exception to this practice is IF you choose to for an event(s) that meets your preferences and fits within My Respect Zone (see below). I will not participate in anything that offends My Integrity. Then, participants will be selected to fulfill the dynamics of your event.

If You are a Domina who wishes to join Us, .

Soiree Assistants & submissives

Coming Soon

I’m still contemplating a Petite Grand Audience (a Grand Audience Event on a smaller, more intimate scale) in July or August for a few, new Domina Associates to meet The Divas! I will select honorable submissives to attend to serve at the Event and to submit themselves for consideration. Details to come.

If You are a Domina who wishes to join Us, .

Soiree Assistants & submissives

In the meantime, if you would like to have a Petite Grand Audience to meet Dominas Whose interests match yours, or if you would like to host a different Soiree, .

Join My Mailing List for Event Updates

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

Note: Several applicants have already been interviewed and are in the process of being matched for compatibility with specific groups of Dominas for Play Soirees. If I have not responded to your application, please be patient. If you have not followed specific rules (e.g., no nudity in photos), I will not respond to you at all and suggest that you try again, properly this time.

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, whatevers are encouraged to apply as long as you can pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand! Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Webcam Workshops

Prepare for the Petite Grand Audience and a Grand Audience soon to come!

Dates To Be Announced Soon

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

Domina101™ Mentoring Group in NYC & On The Web

Next Session 9/7: No Limits

There are limits and there are limits. What’s going on in your mind-body-spirit-heart that motivates, limits, and may even sabotage Your Domain Happiness? And then, there’s always that sub who claims to have no limits… I will share scientific techniques to fine-tune Your Desires for Your Domain.

The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!

Currently on Ask Mss Didi*

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.

New Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely check it out!