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My Birthday Season!
CFNM Domina Play Soiree 10/19
My Private & Personal Fun…
Happy Halloween!
How To Attend My Events

Applications Accepted
for Upcoming Party Service Assistants

Birthday Bliss!

~ REVIEW FOR MY 10/19 EVENT
>> ~ How Event Attendance Works
>> ~ Soiree Attendance Contributions
~ CFNM Domina Play Soiree 10/19
~ My Personal & Private Fun…
~ READ NOW: PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip
~ Domina101™: “Testing & Raising Limits” 10/12
~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

It’s My Birthday Season!

As I wrote in My previous newsletter, last month, I received news that My most-beloved submissive died in the line of duty and I shared some of the beautiful things he said to Me in his final email (see amazing end-of-life planning resources here). The MOST important thing I will remember is to live Life to the fullest and dance every day!

I’m (finally) in a party mood! Especially since I stopped by a few functions around town to see if I might have the opportunity to enjoy events other than My own and… well… I must, again, create the kinds of events in the kinds of environments with the kinds of Quality Fetishists who compliment My Energies. I always present events with class, grace, and excellence. I wish that I could find other events on My level of enjoyments instead of always having to create them…

As always, My Events are chef-catered, in a completely-private (no walk-ins), clean, and comfortable, Midtown space with an elevator — and NO cameras anywhere. And, as always, to ensure that Quality Fetishists are in attendance, ALL ATTENDEES MUST submit a complete application. For this special, upcoming soiree, it will not be necessary to meet with Me in person prior to attendance — a quick, Skype interview (see below) will suffice. However, photographs MUST be submitted with your application for maximum security. No one will be admitted to My Private Spaces without providing the photo(s) I require or by adhering to special preparations (as provided for in the Event Application Form) — end of discussion.

While most people choose to avoid knowing or to ignore the recent horrors that have occurred at certain events, I protect My Domain and ALL those who are permitted to venture into It. More info about the design of My Events can be found HERE.

My Photo Guarantee

For those who have issues with providing photographs: I am the ONLY person who will see and maintain records of Your photos and answers to the application questions. I personally guarantee that your confidentiality will be treated with the same respect that is given to everyone else who attends My Events and the way that I desire to be treated. What happens in My Domain, stays in My Domain. Providing your photos:

(1) ensures that EVERYONE is protected;

(2) keeps away the trolls and other “gruesomes;” AND

(3) ensures that MY DOMAIN — which includes MY spaces and ALL of the people whose trust I’ve earned — remains secure.

If My process is a problem for you, My Current Events are NOT for you. Stay informed by reading My Newsletters for future Events that you can attend.

To Attend My Soiree, Review:

How To Attend My Events – read everything – so that you don’t set yourself up for disappointment and, even more importantly, so that you don’t annoy Me. First impressions are lasting and once you show Me that you don’t care to respect the work and time that I put into creating Excellence in My Domain by following instructions the first time, you won’t usually get a second chance… That goes for Dominants as well as for submissives.

Soiree Attendance Contributions. UNDERSTAND: My current Soirees are even more private, elegant, and discrete than what I’ve made available to the discerning public in the past. As you should know by now, I do NOT make money from My Events and proceeds go to My Charities. Participants contribute to costs for the Event. I don’t do “budget events” nor do I hold My Events in venues with surveillance cameras… If you want Quality, you must be willing to invest in it. Read more….

Please pay close attention to What’s Available & Not Available and How Event Attendance Works.

Up Next

My Birthday CFNM Domina Play Soiree
Wednesday 10/19, 6-10pm Midtown NYC

This s a special, Domina Play Soiree (see regular description HERE) with a larger group of Dominas! AND you are not required to meet with Me in person before being given permission to attend. We will, however, have a quick Skype session if I have not met you.

ALL applicants are carefully screened for participation. Do you realize that this means that I give the time to actually communicate with each and every attendee and potential attendee?

The ONLY exception to this practice is IF you choose to for an event(s) that meets your preferences and fits within My Respect Zone (see below). I will not participate in anything that offends My Integrity. Then, participants will be selected to fulfill the dynamics of your event.

Specific Details are provided ONLY to screened applicants.

If you wish to join Us for this SPECIAL Event, please see details HERE.

I am ever generous: if you have budget considerations and/or would like to offer your service as Event Staff, be certain to read below to be able to join My Soiree fun.

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, whatevers are encouraged to apply as long as you can pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to approach Me properly. This is one of primary reasons I offer My Complimentary Fetish Etiquette Guide: How To Present yourself To A Mistress for free. READ IT before you ruin an opportunity to find what you’re craving in your fetish life. Not only are first impressions lasting, they’ll cost you if you’re missing simple, subtle nuances.

Soiree Assistants & submissives (Dominas please introduce Yourselves above).

I am continuing My interviews for hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Please note: I have planned Personal Play Soirees for new associates to join Me and My Fetish Friends. I will not announce these Events to the public, but new folks who vibe with Me will definitely be invited for decadent delights Mss. Didi* style!

Webcam Workshops

Dates To Be Announced Soon

REMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

Be certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

Domina101™ Mentoring Group in NYC & On The Web

Next Session 10/12: Testing & Raising Limits

Again, there are limits and there are limits. When We find a submissive who seems to be what We want, the best way to avoid wasting time is to establish a plan of testing her/his limits in safe, sane, consensual, and useful ways to support Your goals for her/him in Your Domain. Because there’s always that sub who claims to have no limits… I will share even more scientific techniques to fine-tune Your Desires for Your Domain.

The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!

Currently on Ask Mss Didi*

PAY ATTENTION! submissive Tip is a demonstration for the serious submissive to pay careful attention to instructions to make a good impression to actually have what you want. I highly encourage Dominants and submissives alike to view the ridiculous mistakes that a “wanna-sub” made which could — and should — have easily been avoided.

My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around. Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.

Anti-Stalker Resource

I was contacted by a lovely person from CallerSmart who offered some most-excellent resources to add to My article, “How To Stop A Stalker.” CallerSmart provides an excellent resource on cyberstalking and what to do if you are a victim, along with a very, cool app that helps you identify mystery callers and block those you don’t want to hear from ever again. Definitely check it out!