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Dauntless December!

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Sold Out: PLAY SOIREE December 12 PartyDomme.com
MAYBE: New Year’s Eve Elegant Play Soiree

Opportunities For NEW Party Service Assistants


~ PLAY SoireePartyDomme.com ~ December 12
> By Invitation Only

~~~> Party Service Assistant Opportunities
~~~> Hardcore Masochists Wanted
~ How-To’s Inspired By The Kwanzaa Tradition
~ BEST Chastity Device Special!
~~~> EvotionWearables custom chastity devices
Now forming: The Diva Keyholders Club!
~ GIFT ME! Donate To My Charities
~ Domina101™ Mentoring Groups
~~~> Next Session: Set Ups for Sabotage
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~ ClassicFetish™ Resources

GIFT ME ~ Donate To My Charities!

All I want for Christmas is for YOU to make donations to My Holiday Charities!   Choose one or both!

As I’ve mentioned before, I’m still funding monthly cell phone payments for a group of economically challenged, recent, high school grads who got shafted when a religious freak took over the charity and cut their funding because of a class taught on birth control!  (That’s some god he believes in while telling Me I’m going to hell.  I told him that he will be keeping My foot stool warm when I get there to dig My heels into his flesh for eternity and emailed him this photo…)  It’s been a bit of a struggle, but I promised to help these wonderful, young people through their first year of college.  So, please give a gift of 1 month (or more) of cell phone service HERE and students will receive your support at the End of Their First Semester of College & Holiday Event!

Please donate to My Charity Water Birthday Campaign to bring clean water to people in places where water is a luxury. Can you imagine not even having faucets for water to come from? Or having to travel (most of the time, walk) several miles to obtain drinkable water? So, give a small gift that gives to many!  Just think of the crappy gifts you get each year and FEEL GOOD about giving something wonderful!


The PartyDomme Play Soirees

SOLD OUT: Saturday, December 12th ~ 8pm-1am

Midtown Manhattan NYC, BY INVITATION ONLY ~ Strict Security Measures in place for everyone’s safety

LOTS of changes have occurred in just a few days which have changed the dynamic of December 12th’s Play Soiree — including a new venue and some very specials friends coming to town to Play on a grand scale!

So, stay tuned for the next Play Soiree to be announced soon!  And don’t delay to secure your admission — space is limited and fills up fast!

New Year’s Eve Elegant Play Soiree – Maybe…

There’s been another major change in My plans and instead of spending New Year’s Eve in the Sun, Sea & Sand, I may be in NYC partying with friends from other countries — and then, I’m going to party in the Sun, Sea & Sand!  I’m CONSIDERING putting together a New Year’s Eve Elegant Play Soiree.  Here’s the thing with that — Since New Year’s Eve is THE biggest holiday party event of the year:

  • I’ll require advanced admission payment by 12/27
  • I choose to bring in The New Year in luxury so, the admission will be $350 per couple – ALL INCLUSIVE, of course, chef-catered and good champagne
  • I usually arrange for car service – included in admission – which cuts down on travel drama
  • I want a HIGH-FETISH ATTIRE Event (your absolute best – dressing room to change in the Space)

~> The Trusted PartyDomme Photographer will take photos of those who wish to be photographed; you receive ALL of your photos; and a PRIVATE PHOTO ALBUM is made available to Soiree Guests ONLY

Make sure you’re on My Mailing List for information and invitations!

Opportunities for NEW FUN Assistants

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, whatevers are encouraged to apply as long as you can pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time in the early part of New Year 2016 with Me in the sun-sea-sand! Soiree Assistants APPLY HEREPartyDomme.com

I’m ALSO interviewing hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Webcam Workshops Return in January 2016!

right-arrowREMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on My Ask Mss Didi* Blog. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice?  More Info…

PartyDomme.comBe certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

BEST Chastity Device & The Diva Keyholders Club

EvotionWearbles Bespoke Restraint Devices

Give up your freedom, not your comfort.

EvotionWearables.comIntroducing the world’s first 3D printed, custom chastity devices. Granted, I have refined tastes and prefer high-quality in everything. Chastity has never enticed Me (in fact, it bored Me) mainly because I have never seen a device that wasn’t bulky and unattractive (and made Me feel like cooties were growing in it!). Genital restraint is an interesting idea, but I could take it or leave it… UNTIL NOW!

Aside from the concept of a custom-made-to-fit, 3D printed, ingenious design for an evolutionary, restraint experience, the use of a piercing takes the chastity experience to the next level! Evotion cages are truly inescapable short of cutting the device off, leave no pressure on the piercing, and always stay properly positioned. How nipples-erectus!

If ever there was the perfect holiday gift, this is it! Make a Domina and yourself happy and GET YOUR EVOTION CAGE TODAY!

No Domme to hold your key? No worries:

Join The Diva Keyholders Club

I’m so excited about this amazing creation that I’ve teamed up with a few, gorgeous Dominas (and recruiting more) to create The Diva Keyholders Club so that lucky chastity-subs can join Us in the New Era of Chastity Adventures! The possibilities are endless! Attention Dominas and chastity-lovers of all kinds, click here for More Club Info…

Grand Audience “Speed Domming™” Reviews!


In case you missed the opportunity in the last issue of My Newsletter, I’ve decided to publish reviews from Attendees of some of My Events again.

Click HERE  for what Attendees of Grand Audience: Interviews With The Dominants 10/22 had to say.

How-To’s Inspired By The Kwanzaa Tradition

AskMssDidi.comLEARN SOMETHING NEW in this season of everyone else’s traditions that have been done-to-death — and for profit.

The bottom line: how you feel about everything in your life determines the quality of your life.  So, the smart thing to do is to find and use tools to create ways for you to HAVE JOY!


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The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!

AskMssDidi.comCurrently on Ask Mss Didi*

Fakers-Shakers-Takers-Noise-Makers. I devised the term, “fakers-shakers-takers-noise-makers” to refer to “time-wasters” who are part of the confusion of the mainstream’s foray into The Scene. Knowing the signs of “wasters” prevents acts of vampirism on Our precious energies.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!


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