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Fulfill The Dream in 2016!

Private, Boutique Events
Dates Announced Soon…
Understanding How To Attend

Applications Accepted
for 2 NEW Party Service Assistants

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~ How Event Attendance Works
~ GIFT: How To Tips for submissives: First Contact
~ Webcam Workshops
~ Domina101™: Understanding The Practice of Tribute

~ ClassicFetish™ Resources
~ Stimulations

How Event Attendance Works

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1) EVERYONE must be interviewed in person prior to attending any of My Current Events.  These Events are NOT regular-ol’-parties that you just show up to at a (dive) venue where any-ol’-body can just show up, too.  I pair participants for the right mix of Energies and Fetish Synergies.  I am generous to invite new people to join Me and My Quality Fetish Associates; not desperate for attendees.

1. My Events are high-end: chef-catered; held in discrete, private, clean environments; centrally located in Midtown Manhattan for convenience; and completely secure.

PartyDomme.com2.  If you want to Soiree with The Divas, you have to step up your game. I don’t get a “discount” or a “bargain” on the quality venues, food, etc. that I choose, so raise your standards to meet Mine. Or you can attend the other CFNM  gatherings that (I hear, and am not surprised) offend the senses and remind you that if you’re not willing to make an investment in quality, you will remain without it.  SEE THESE SOIREE TIPS.

3.  ALL participants comply with My Security Requirements – period.  Photo(s) are turd-tard repellent and insurance for best behaviors and I am the ONLY person who will view and maintain your security applications. And if you have an issue with meeting with Me in person, see #2 above.

4.  Follow ALL instructions carefully.  To ensure privacy and discretion, you may be required to fulfill a 2- to 3-step process.  If you don’t have the patience to do this, you don’t deserve all of the time, care, planning, and talents that I provide to make My Events happen.

My Domina Soirees are Private, Boutique Events and because I design them with much attention, love, and care to match the right people and the right energies for the right dynamic of Fetish Fabulousness, they are quite popular!  So, of course, now everyone wants to attend but ONLY the worthy and attentive get to Play.

This is why it is so important to follow instructions to observe the Security Requirements and recognize that My Events are not the any-and-everybody-can-pay-to-show-up, mish-mosh, conglomeration that is what most folks are accustomed to as “fetish” events.

April Events

Dates To Be Announced Soon

A recent death in the family has necessitated a rescheduling of Events.  I will, as always, announce Event Dates to My Mailing List FIRST.  The upcoming Domina Play Soirees are for small groups of Dominas with 1 to 3 submissive attendants. As always, Events are conveniently located in Midtown Manhattan and ALL applicants are carefully screened for participation. You do realize that this means that I give the time to actually communicate with each and every attendee and potential attendee, right?

  • The ONLY exception to this practice is IF you choose to engage My Event Design skills for an event(s) that meets your preferences and fits within My Respect Zone (see below). I will not participate in anything that offends My Integrity.  Then, participants will be selected to fulfill the dynamics of your event.

Domina Play Soirees (see description below) are DommeSalon™ socializers where I bring a group of intelligent, talented Dommes together for community building, networking,  and a lucky sub or 2 (or 3) to serve Us.  These are not money-making events; they are designed for Us to meet people We can actually like in The Scene!  (And My Events are fundraisers for My Charities when appropriate.)

As described HERE, ALL attendees are required to adhere to strict security measures and ONLY those who do are invited to attend. ONLY confirmed attendees receive specific information about Events.

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Coming In June

I’ve decided to produce a Petite Grand Audience (a Grand Audience Event on a smaller, more intimate scale) in June for a few, new Domina Associates to meet The Divas!  I will select honorable submissives to attend to serve at the Event and to submit themselves for consideration.  Details to come.

In the meantime, if you would like to have a Petite Grand Audience to meet Dominas Whose interests match yours, or if you would like to host a different Soiree, consider having your own event.

Opportunities for NEW submissives & FUN Assistants

Note: Several applicants have already been interviewed and are in the process of being matched for compatibility with specific groups of Dominas for Play Soirees. If I have not responded to your application, please be patient. If you have not followed specific rules (e.g., no nudity in photos), I will not respond to you at all and suggest that you try again, properly this time.

I regularly offer opportunities for cool people to experience the glories of My Domain and Events by offering their services to assist Me and My Guests. I am interested in “keepers” — people who will become part of the Fetish Family and be worthy of being adored — and this is the perfect chance to test the waters! These opportunities are NOT limited to submissives. Dominants, switches, whatevers are encouraged to apply as long as you can pay attention and follow instructions. And if I really like you, I may invite you to spend some time with Me in the sun-sea-sand! Soiree Assistants & submissives APPLY HERE (Dominas please see above).PartyDomme.com

I am still interviewing hardcore masochists for private and public performances, Mentee training sessions, and Play — of course! Play, Play, Play! This opportunity may include all-expense paid travel. Hardcore Masochists APPLY HERE

Webcam Workshops

Prepare for the Petite Grand Audience and a Grand Audience soon to come!

Dates To Be Announced Soon

right-arrowREMINDER: My Webcam Workshops and My Events are fundraisers for My Charities.x

Why Take These Webcam Workshops?

Well, you don’t have to — you can always read everything I’ve graciously provided for free on AskMssDidi.com. Although a lot of what I present in My Workshops is not written there, you can always spend even more time figuring out what else you need to know and keep your fingers crossed to search the internet to find intelligent information. If you take My Webcam Workshops, you can spend 90 minutes enjoying the condensed version of what I’ve written and more AND ask Me questions directly in real-time. Of course, you can always continue being as happy, successful, and satisfied with your Fetish situations, doing what you’re already doing… Isn’t it wonderful to have the choice? More Info…

PartyDomme.comBe certain you’re on My Mailing List for other Workshop dates and other announcements.

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The Domina101™ Collective Training via webcam and in person in NYC is in full swing! Enjoy a comfortable environment to learn, to share, and make personal connections to support Your Dominance. For more information, please read and Join Us!

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My recent interviews have prompted Me to generously offer a FREE section of The Superior submissive™ Webcam Workshop to alleviate a LOT of stress all the way around.  Read How-To Tips for submissives: First Contact and remember that Presentation is EVERYTHING.

I recommend that you also check out The Difference Between Fetish and kink. Refer the people you encounter to this article and use these keys for ease in your Fetish experience. If you are not part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

The Contents page of AskMssDidi.com has summaries of the articles for more comprehensive reading. Take advantage of My Gifts of Domain Maintenance Training Techniques for BetterFetish™!

Or take a Webcam Workshop for a condensed version of My Techniques that can be found on AskMssDidi.com.


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